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Recent content by vijil

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    Homosexual and Christian?

    a_nony_mous - Natural orientation and chosen orientation are two different things. I am naturally oriented towards being a lazy slob by a probable gene/upbringing combo (I'm not the first in my family line by any means). I decided to fight it. Have I stopped being inherently lazy? No. I...
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    Non-Christian Friends

    It depends. I wouldn't marry a non Christian simply because faith is something I'd much rather be on the same page as them regarding. As for "best friends" it depends on you more than anything. If you're super mega close and do everything together it can get to stage where it's compromising...
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    Ohai

    My name is Rob, I'm mid/late twenties and I'm in New Zealand. I've been linked here from the Christ Krew (Christian paintball club) thread over on pbnation dot com :) Why am I here... partly because I don't go to a church right now and after going along to all the ones around my remote...
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    Do you play paintball?

    My first post here :) - sorry if this is a bit necro. I used to captain a tournament team and guest coached another for a while. I don't play these days because, basically, God has put me in a situation where I don't get to (completely worth it) but I'd still love to get back into the...