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Recent content by valdacious

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    I need help asap

    Thanks everyone -
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    I need help asap

    I will make a long story short. I am under spiritual attack...I have done idiotic things that caused it..I need clarity....wisdom...direction..and for the attack to stop...pray for me to know our Lords will...brothers and sisters I need to be in the Lords hand...
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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    When I was in my mid-thirties I noticed guys in their late 40's and 50's chased me. I knew it was not for me - but my age. Now that I am older I am observing the same behavior in my age group. I have taken to telling guys I am older than I am to gauge their reaction. I have not met one who...
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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    My bf makes me pay for all the past sins of the women in his life. Sometimes I wonder who he is talking to. I have actually had to say to him, "I didn't do that your x did - I have my own faults, you can blame me for them!" Also I keep expecting him to do what others did to me. Perhaps we...
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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    Gee now I am dying of curiosity to know what you wrote...oh well it is lost to the ages...
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    Why is the bible "finished"?

    Thank you everyone. The bible then is a book of prophesy that explains the meaning of life and human history. The prophesy was fulfilled with the coming of Christ and the bible with the emergent church and the giving of the Holy Spirit.
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    Why is the bible "finished"?

    Hi friends: Is there any particular reason to believe the "bible" is a finished book? Why should God stop speaking to us through the prophets and witnesses and not share it through the written word in the present age? To be honest I feel like I have been naive to believe it all these years...
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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    It is interesting that men are visual..but women process words visually...it is a problem between the sexes that men want a woman who looks as attractive as possible and women need loving words and attention... As for someone who loves you sexually no matter what you look like...I just don't...
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    :'( falling apart

    It hurts so much to lose someone you love. You have so much to give to him, say, show a thousand times a day. I am so sorry for your loss. ((((hug)))) Please don't drink. I did that for years to deal with pain. It does not work it makes it worse.
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    Only option for mature man - a younger woman

    When I was at my thinnest my bf was very chubby and I have had a bf who was extremely thin when I was chubby...so pooof to that theory! :zoro: p.s. The chubby guy was seven years younger than I. Maybe his chubbiness made him date out of his age range - the thin guy was a year younger...maybe I...
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    Good Woman in Need of a Husband - Sligtly Used

    I didn't think so...
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    Good Woman in Need of a Husband - Sligtly Used

    Merry Christmas! The whole thread is more factitious than a plea for a certain type of person. I suppose in actuality, what matters is that special something that makes a person right. We are all individuals. Someone with good character is necessary, apart from that I don't think we have the...
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    Merry Christmas.. want to make sure you see it..

    ~*Merry Christmas*~ Awesome card! :clap::clap::clap:
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    Good Woman in Need of a Husband - Sligtly Used

    My thoughts exactly....;p