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Recent content by Upriser

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    If you could do it over??

    this is a difficult one : I did not have a happy childhood coming from a poor background with a dominant father and this carried on in my life till I got married and even now it is still a struggle keeping my parents out of our marriage, but I have a nice wife and two lovely children, a good...
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    Domestic Discipline

    only women replied ? (better watch my answer - LOL). Yep I believe the problem in relationships / marriages today is that women have become too independent and not trusting a man enough to submit to him (as far as I have seen in relationships today : it is usually the man who gives in to please...
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    Newbies Only ! 1 Day To 1 Week Old

    oops, I forgot the correct date (was so much excited having found this site and reading other messages) but I believe it was november 30th or december 1st. Now let me carry on reading as reading how other people received blessings might encourage me to stay on the right path too.
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    Not tonight honey - for husbands

    I complained about the lack of sex ... a year after our first child. She finally agreed and... got pregnant again. Now I am waiting again for about a year and have to be patient to become intimate (and more carefull).... If only women also knew that a husband comes first and then the...
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    Feminists and submission

    pffff my wife is a bit of a feminist too. And I am the son of a big chauvinist who has learned to give women more freedom (of money, speech etc). But when my wife wanted to continue to work after giving birth she was like me tired and stressed in the evenings and we had little time and energy...
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    baby #2 or #2-3

    my sons are 2 years apart (26 months to be exact) and are now 7 months and almost 3 years (in february). I was also happy for them to be so close so they will still play together. I was always a bit envious of those couples with two children in Disneyland and our son was always running to other...
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    Intra Uterine Insemination

    we did IVF the first time but had a second one naturally afterwards (so beware...LOL). the IVF was a bit painfull for my wife (the taking out of the egg) but we had good doctors. Also you want to try and relax. Stress and anxiety contributes a lot (job, house, people around you, and also the...
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    "You don't woo me anymore!"

    I can relate to what Clay said. My wife and I are undergoing the same process. I used to buy her flowers, took her on a romantic weekends but she suffers from stress and anxiety. I lost my job in 2003 and immediately found a new one, so we did not loose the house but that shook her so badly (I...
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    "HARRY POTTER" SEDUCTION

    Sorry to disagree : I liked all the Harry Potter films sofar. Yes they do have to do with wizards and monsters. But hey, when me and you were young did you not watch the old disney movies : even snowwhite has a witch (who scared me when I was little) ! Mary Poppins had also magic, even Mickey...
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    Greeters Annex - fellowship for greeters and newbies (2)

    Hello all, am also new here, probably one of the few on the other site of the ocean (Europe) Sorry did not have the time to add avatars etc. Hope we will have a great time of sharing, praising and stimulating