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Recent content by Undeserving.d

  1. Undeserving.d

    Insecurity

    It seems as if it is. I really appreciate your constant replies. It helps knowing I came talk to someone about this. I've never had anyone to talk to about it. I've always bottled it up and put a smile on my face. Thank you! If only it were that easy. This has been a constant. There are times...
  2. Undeserving.d

    Insecurity

    I know to most this is petty, but this has been an issue for 13+ years. I feel disrespected when he does it. There is no consideration for how it makes me feel. These insecurities I have only deepen each time he sees a beautiful woman. Maybe he just settled with me. Maybe I'm not enough. Yes...
  3. Undeserving.d

    Insecurity

    I never thought of it that way. That makes sense. I guess, in a way I'm condoning the behavior... I'm trying to transform myself into what he wants. It's ultimately a waste of time. He says he doesn't look with a lustful heart. Defining lust as wanting something from them. But that he doesn't...
  4. Undeserving.d

    Insecurity

    He blames my insecurities when I notice him staring. That it's my problem. Usually he denies it. At times he says he doesn't realize he's doing it. He is Christian. We're active in church. We do daily devotional with our kids and just the two of us before bed. He always reminds our kids to...
  5. Undeserving.d

    Insecurity

    Hi! I'm a 30-something mother of 4 and I've been married for 13 years. I came into this marriage with insecurities, low self esteem and a low level of self worth. No person is to blame and that is something I must work out within myself. Early in our marriage, my husband had issues with...