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Recent content by unansweredprayers

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    I resent pregnant women

    Thank you both, Newbie2, and Catherineanne. Your words have been of much encouragement. I appreciate that there are people out there who care. I did name my child, I felt it would have been a girl. Lucy, meaning "light". You're right Catherine, I couldn't and wouldn't want to forget her.
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    Sexist Pornography Addiction Assumptions?

    Thank you, that is exactly what I meant. There are a few women in leadership, but it's the lead man who decided what everyone would do that night. Thanks for the advice about bringing up sexism to them, maybe they aren't even aware they're doing it.
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    Sexist Pornography Addiction Assumptions?

    Not that I can see. The only one that *might* be close is one called "women who struggle", and when I click on it, I'm told I am trying to edit someone else's post and that I'm not allowed to do that??
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    Sexist Pornography Addiction Assumptions?

    Why is there not a forum for WOMEN to talk about porn addiction? Why is it assumed women don't struggle with this from time to time? Does it bother anyone else? I was attending a local church's Bible study for some time, and during the announcements one night, they said that on an upcoming...
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    Have You Ever? For Young Adults (3)

    Nope! =D Have you ever made/eaten a s'more? (I just found out one of my friends Never had one!!! Needless to say I was quite appalled)
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    I feel unforgiven for leaving church early :(

    Sweetie you did nothing wrong, no need for forgiveness. I know one of the leaders in the youth group at C3(we actually met on myspace years ago and have keep in touch since, we've become good friends!!!) and I know that she and the others at C3 would NOT be offended at all. If it's not your...
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    What song are you listening to right now #2

    Crashing Down - Matt Kearney
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    Your first kiss!

    I'd probably rather forget ittt... I held onto it for so long because it never felt like that perfect setting like in the movies, and when I finally had my first kiss, I kind of gave everything else away the same night. Strong emotions are something I struggle with. =/ I know it's not the...
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    College Students

    I just started at American Public University fora B.A. and so far I LOVE it! I would say if you're good at being self disciplined and finding time to do your work online, go for it!!! It's very easy to register and get everything started. It's also combined with AMU(American Military University)...
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    Thanksgiving Due Date

    No, I had a miscarriage. I was only around 2 months along at the time but I have felt it was a girl and since refer to the baby as "she" and "her".
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    Thanksgiving Due Date

    Today is Thanksgiving. My favorite holiday of the whole year...usually. But today should have been my baby's due date.. her birthday... This thanksgiving was more like going through the motions. I was in a crowd of people yet feeling more alone than ever. People thinking I'm just in a bad...
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    I resent pregnant women

    I know this may sound bad, but ever since I lost my baby, when I hear someone announce they're pregnant I get physically ill. It's not that I dislike them or think they don't deserve it, because I'm always happy for them, but something inside me makes me feel almost hurt or bitter, not at them...
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    Has this worked, for you?

    I did the same thing, turning the snapping into an even worse habit, but for me it helped health wise because with snapping my wrists I wasn't losing blood as with cutting I was losing quite a bit, which is Very bad for me as I am anemic and was not taking my iron supplements. I quit cutting...
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    Do I tell him?

    About 6 months ago, I found out I was almost 2 months pregnant. Almost as soon as I found out, I lost the baby. Before I could tell my fiance that I was even pregnant. I ended up getting scared and not knowing what to do, so not wanting to hurt our relationship, I didn't tell him at all...