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Recent content by TXlenna

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    Recently pregnant and husband has checked out

    I know that he suffers from ptsd as do I but I get therapy/treatment for it. He says that people with ptsd are weak minded (then I found out that he has it) smh...I went to my first divorcecare.com meeting today and it was really good. I might have even found a church home from it. I am having a...
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    Recently pregnant and husband has checked out

    <Staff Edit> Here's the thing. I never thought that I would get married, get pregnant, and then be slapped with divorce papers all within the course of such a short span. No one dreams this. I can't fathom this story either. I'm living it so I know how ridiculous it seems and I have cried so...
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    Recently pregnant and husband has checked out

    Thank you for your response. I tried to remind him of what the Bible says his part is but he doesn't want to hear it. I am giving it my all and asking God to help me accept the outcome no matter what that may be. It's tough but I have my children (my son and baby growing inside of me) to think...
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    Recently pregnant and husband has checked out

    It is hard because I had to go retain a lawyer today in order to fight the divorce because you have to respond within 20 days of getting served. It was really hard for me and my son has been destroyed by this blaming himself and I don't know why he would do that. I told him that this has nothing...
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    Recently pregnant and husband has checked out

    Thanks for your response. I have asked him to go to marriage counseling with me but he says that he isn't the problem, I am. I agreed to go to individual counseling and am due to start Sunday. I feel that there is more to it as well but when I ask, he just says that I am not the person he...
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    Recently pregnant and husband has checked out

    I don't want to go into too great detail but here it is: When I met my husband we both stated that we were Christians (he was raised catholic) I was raised Christian. When we started contemplating marriage, I was very clear that marriage is for life and I don't under any circumstance believe in...