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Recent content by tunnelhckrat

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    Struggles with sexuality and anxiety

    If you want a healthy relationship you should let this female know that you are slow to develop romantically. Its a good thing I think, too many people fall into a state of euphoria that's dependant on the other person, the relationship ends, and then its chaos.
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    I'm struggling with homosexuality.

    <Staff Edit> Yes, god loves us enough to give us free will, and yes; others free will have damaged your thought process. <Staff Edit> While bad things happen, they are caused by the sinful nature of man-Not God. I used to blame God for many things, now I realize that some of those things...
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    will He forgive someone like me?

    The answer is Yes, God will forgive. As someone who has been through this I can honestly say it works, but it isn't easy.
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    I'm struggling with homosexuality.

    Trusting in Gods plan at times can be one of the hardest things we can do. I remember my struggle with the same issues. Refusing on the basis of being what God wants is hard, but he is our strength and we need to always ALWAYS ask for his strength. He will not withhold his power from us but we...
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    Understanding Gods view on the Addict

    I will look into this, Thank you
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    Understanding Gods view on the Addict

    I cannot see God as wanting me to give up, I believe that through him there is always hope. I do realize that it is out of my hands though.
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    Understanding Gods view on the Addict

    So I have a "close" family member that, due to their attitude and behavior, no longer have a place in my and my children's life. I gave this person an ultimatum that included what they needed to do to have access to my family. Unfortunately, their childish and self centered attitude has...
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    Anyone have stories of how they regret their sexual past?

    You spoke about "sexual landscape" just wanted to let you know that doesn't matter. God is the same today as he was yesterday. By that account, his judgments, are the same as they always have been.
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    Why?

    We are sinners, we fail. But if we learn to rely on god for all our needs then there is strength in failure. Do not burden yourself with guilt.
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    Pure-O , Life as a sick man

    The thoughts will come. Its not the thoughts that make us sin, its what we do with them. I find that if you resist the devil he will flee. It is not easy, and you may defeat temptation now only to face it again later, possibly even years later. God be with you
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    Keep me in prayer/porn/specific type of porn struggle

    I understand. Its a very hard habit to break but with gods help it can be done.
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    sexually bonded together

    it is possible to be friends after such things, but be forewarned, it will require an undersanding in you AND in her/him. MOst of the time I think one party has problems seeing it that way, so dont be too dissapointed if it doesnt work out. Best hope to you.
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    6 mo s/p vasectomy, new pain

    I had a vasectomy after our second child in August. I started having painful sex about 2 weeks ago. I dont get the pain at any other time and it subsides shortly afterwards. Has anyone else had this issue?
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    trusting in others

    We are asked not to judge others, this is a hard thng for many of us to do. Ask Jesus for guidance. Remember not to judge others, if they say something to you take it as face value. And love your nieghbors as you would have them love you.
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    A Cry Out For Help

    If this is what you truly want and Jesus is with you then you have nothing to fear. Even death will not overcome those in Christ.
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