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Recent content by tundrawolf

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    Living with the scars of bisexuality

    As you press into God, through the terrifying confusion, impossible barriers, and difficulties, God will give you times of overcoming. It will be slow at first, painfully slow depending on your involvement and how deep your trauma was. For me my trauma went to my core, and I had to be...
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    The Teachins of Dr. Nicolosi

    2 Haha I mean "no way" as in how cool is it that you have stumbled onto his work, not no way as in I don't agree with it =)
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    Questioning my salvation

    One thing my recent struggles have taught me that how I feel and understand things in life can be diametrically different than what is going on with God Basically how I "feel" has no bearing on reality. But more than that, I have come to witness that the single most powerful force in existence...
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    Being Judgemental Christians

    God helped me overcome this by showing me all the things I judge people for I am in a way, guilty of myself. For example, I'll cuss at a bad driver, then 5 minutes hates later I'm doing the same thing they did that made me mad. Lol. I'm really glad God is forcing me to have mercy on people. I...
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    The Teachins of Dr. Nicolosi

    No way. I just bought his book on preventing homosexuality in children. He has amazing points. I even shared some of his videos with a friend of mine who's falling into the gay lifestyle, he said he liked the videos! I agree that frustration makes me start to think about acting out. I think...
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    habitual sin - porn & masturbation

    Probably one of the most encouraging words things i've read.
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    Am I trying too hard for God?

    You and me both. I was struggling with intense demonic oppression, when God revealed to me that as a child I had created (THanks to much sexual and physical, spiritual, verbal abuse) a system of self- condemnation, and self damnation so I could feel worthy of God's love. When I began to grow...
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    Am I trying too hard for God?

    Yes. You are being too religious. In church a guy told me to read x amount of chapters of this book, and x amount of chapters of that book every day. It lasted one day. I get FAR more when I pace myself, instead of agonizingly picking up the Bible and reading because I "Have to". Of course this...
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    Hopeless

    I feel you. However. God is able to do things you never imagined. DO not find yourself staring into the eyes of the man God has prepared for you, only to still be immature and not ready yourself. Marriage is a huge labor. What if God gives you the man you desire tomorrow? Work as if God has...
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    Hopeless

    It doesn't pay to hold things in. And please, be honest. The church has an awful and well deserved reputation for repressing natural desires, or shunning those who express them. This was NEVER God's intention! Please be aware that the road to true, lasting love, the love you are desperate for...
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    Bulletproof pulpits?

    I am part of church security and am always armed. Sometimes I wear body armor to protect speakers/musicians during events. I have protected names people here would recognize. These are the times in which we live. And Christians of old have lived. I am also part of a national movement to...
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    Hopeless

    As a man who has struggled with homosexualkity all of his life, I feel exactly the way you do (Except for a woman). What has taken me 40 agonizing years to discover, are these things... 1. God DOES care about your silliest desires. He either wants to change them into what is healthy (If they...
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    Science fiction

    Being involved in the anthropomorphic fiction, I can tell you, it can be used for good, such as in C.S. Lewis's stories alluding to the nature of sin, or it can be used as a way to escape the harshities of reality, and live in a crumbling world of nonsense that will keep you from ever growing or...
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    Homosexual reoccurring thoughts??

    In my 40 year struggle with homosexuality, I can tell you, triggers will always exist. And just when you think they are all gone, another powerful one will hit you hard. You must learn to deal with the difficult things. You must learn to hash it out inside of yourself, because you will never be...
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    How can I stop being a lesbian?

    I am a man who struggles with homosexuality. I have a lot of lesbian and transexual friends, whom I try and be an example for. They have nobody else who will tell them that their lifestyle is one that leads to broken ness and death. What I can tell you from what God has shown to me... God...