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Recent content by tryingsohard

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    Why can't men be straight.

    No, hurt is the more appropriate word.
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    Why can't men be straight.

    I was just broken up by a girl, maybe some of you have read the thread (An Extremely Long Story). The most heartbreaking thing is when you are a guy who treats your woman the way she is supposed to be treated AND you go the extra mile to treat her even better than that...and then all of the...
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    An EXTREMELY long story

    Wow...that was great. That's some of the best advice anyone's given to me this whole time. That part about falling in love with "love." I was thinking that but I just didn't know how to say it. Great advice and I will definetly take yours and John's to heart. God Bless you both!
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    An EXTREMELY long story

    Thanks, that was good stuff John. Right now I'm confused because I really don't want her out of my life...but I want her to be in my life in a way she doesn't want to be. I've isolated myself completely from her for 3 weeks tomorrow...no contact period. It was my choice, she says she's open...
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    An EXTREMELY long story

    My hands might fall off while I'm typing this, so if you get a bunch of jumbled words like aoginaoidnaoidn, then just wait for me to reattach my hand. :) Ok, well about a month ago, 2 days before Valentine's Day, my girlfriend broke up with me. I'm 20, she's almost 21, we're both in...
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    Prayer request thank you

    Thanks for the prayers...the doctor said my colon looked perfectly healthy and that I don't have any sort of disease. Thank you to all who prayed for me! I will be praying for everyone on this forum.
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    Prayer request, please

    Hi, I'm new to the forum. I have two things I need you all to pray for, please. First, about 10 days ago my girlfriend of 1.5 years said she needed some time for herself to see if she really loves me. I just ask that you all pray for everything to work out for the best. Secondly, on...