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    Languages

    i know english... and a little kiswahili. but not much... yeah...
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    advice/reassurance needed please

    do not over spiritualise it tooo... it's your decision in the end as well....
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    Your SOs Friendships

    ok for me... i'ave been with a guy for a bit over a year. He has one close female who he'd go out alone with... However it would never be set up... sometimes i might set up a time alone with a best friend of mine, a guy... but my bf can come and he's invited usually... and the differnece is we...
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    Something to say or do

    mmm... talk about life in general and have a notebook and put lil things down you want to talk aobut. but also pray. how to pray together, you pray then he prays, etc... about anything and everything, yourselves, family friends... etc. good luck...
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    Girlfriend wants sex - how to deal

    yeah. i agree. 4 years is too long of waiting. unless this is a ldr, you really need to start considering this as a "very soon:" option. Female view: "I am not that old... by any means. I would be driven crazy after 2-3 years. 4 would drive me nutty... the main reason for this is because...
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    Relationship Advice

    From my perspective of this situation there is a lot to take into account. 1) if you decide you will get married then decide it in a nearly 'definate' kinda way. The only reason you should break up is if there are serious reasons such as serious differneces developing or character issues that...