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Recent content by trojan2000

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    Looking for New Church in Phoenix, Arizona

    I just moved to Glendale 6 wks ago from the Midwest. Started going to Bethany Bible Church in the last 2 wks which has been fantastic. Not sure about the college age crowd but if you're still interested, it's located on Bethany Home Rd & 7th. Hope you find a great new church family : )
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    Filed for Divorce

    Lifting you up in prayer too!
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    I am hurting so badly right now...

    Kanga22-that's great news about your reconciliation!!! Praise the Lord! I believe the road will not be easy but the fact that you are both willing to try to make it work is a great first step.
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    Husband gone, not sure what's next

    Hi kristybear--I'm sorry to hear about your loss. Thanks so much for the words of encouragement. It's been 3 wks since he's moved out & things are getting better for me emotionally but I still struggle b/c I love him so much. If he said he wanted to come home today, I wouldn't ask any...
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    It's over

    Cjba--my many prayers of support & encouragement go out to you. Althought this is harder than any of us could ever imagine, you'll make it through. Remember that God loves you more than your husband ever could, especially after the way he's treated you. Big hugs : )
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    Husband gone, not sure what's next

    FightingForHim7, You are right. I don't want to make a mistake & throw away this relationship w/o serious deliberation & cousel from God. Divorce is my last desire but I don't know what things would be like after the infidelity...My heart is so sad but I also feel like God is using this time...
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    Husband gone, not sure what's next

    Thanks littletomatoes. Will be praying for you to. Some days are harder yhan others but I know & believe that God will help me through this.
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    Husband gone, not sure what's next

    Hi AutumnLeaf, No, I've decided to leave her out of this. I sent 3-4 nasty emails to her to leave us alone & she thought I was threatening her & her illigitimate kid. So, she called a detective to follow up on the emails. After that, I realized she's not worth the trouble.
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    Anger

    GodsGrace87 & madison1101--thank you for sharing that verse. I got an email from my 'husband' w/his new mailing address. My blood was boiling as I read "I just want to say sorry about all of this and please try to stay positive no matter what, God is good all the time." I keep going through...
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    Husband gone, not sure what's next

    Hi all, Thank you so much for your comments & support. You don't know how much that has lifted my spirits. I drove to work weeping today for what's felt like the greatest loss I've had in my 28 yrs of life. We used to send each other emails during work, call each other on the way home, and...
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    Husband gone, not sure what's next

    I have been married to the man of my dreams for 8 yrs. He's attactive, giving, fiercely loyal, and fun to be around. He introduced me to God & encouraged me to seek God as my Lord & Savior. Later we were baptized together. We've shared many challenges & joys together and just moved to Phoenix...
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    caught him with her

    Hi Carol, I am newly seperated from my husband of 8 yrs. I found out he went to great lengths to hide a relationship he was having w/a woman he knew from work, a long time ago. He says he left b/c he needs a break to figure things out but offers no hope of saving our marriage. I haven't been...