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Recent content by Trex

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    sex after the civil ceremony, or church ceremony?

    Coming from a guy, this might be strange, but I'd rather wait another 3 months until the official Wedding. While there's nothing wrong with going ahead after the civil union, something just seems wonderful about a romantic wedding night in a foreign place. The honeymoon was made for that...
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    Premarital sex?

    I do not believe it is wrong to be married and not live together, but who wants to do that? That's why we simply can't get married right now. I also understand that marriage is not intended for the purpose of having sex. I understand that there will be temptations along the way, but I can't even...
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    Being Clingy..

    No problem; glad I could relate. Ironically I'm being forced to give her space right now as she's doing a Winter Term in Italy. She called me today from Rome and probably will not be able to call again until the weekend... that's the longest I've ever gone without speaking with her. :( I...
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    Premarital sex?

    Thanks for the advice... although technically we could get married when we see each other, neither of us want to be married and have to live away from each other. It's hard enough being long-distance, but a husband should be with his wife during marriage when possible. I'm sure marriage is hard...
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    Being Clingy..

    I'm in a very similar situation, even though I'm a guy (hope it's not too weird to be 'clingy')... my gf and I are very independent, and also in a long distance relationship (which I believe to be the driving force for these feelings). We only live about 3.5 hours apart, but with her being...
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    Premarital sex?

    I have been searching for truth in the matter of premarital sex, but cannot seem to find the answer... I really would like help with this. A few things here; my girlfriend and I physically cannot get married because we are long-distance right now (she's still finishing up school). I have a...