Recent content by TransformedByGrace

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    Is it okay to be living together?

    Statistically, the divorce rate of married couple who live together climbs to 80% from the already-too-high divorce rate of 50% for couples who don't live together. The reasons to not live together include more than just sexual things. The first year of marriage is going to be the roughest year...
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    Did anyone else go this fast?

    That sounds like absolutely every single couple that decides to wait to get married! I wouldn't be too worried about it moving faster than expected. Spend the time you have now preparing for marriage. :)
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    Help please - is my Christian boyfriend cheating?

    You need to ask him who the girl he was with is, and if you have anything to worry about. If he says "no, you don't have anything to worry about", he is being honest with you. Then you need to calmly explain to him that you expect him to confide in you before others about issues because you are...
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    When you go somewhere together as a couple, who usually drives?

    The people that comment to you guys probably think that it's an original joke that you've never heard before. The fact is, old jokes aren't very funny. But you can't expect anyone that you meet to know that commenting like that won't be taken as lightheartedly as they think it will. In other...
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    He doesn't want me anymore.

    I recently closed my myspace account because I was sick of the near-inappropriate content videos on the homepage that popped up every time i went to check my messages and girls sending me flirty invites to visit there pages and such. Myspace used to just be a place to keep in touch with friends and express...
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    When you go somewhere together as a couple, who usually drives?

    I almost always drive. It's a guy thing.
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    In need of advice (especially from guys)

    Yeah, I saw quite a few really big issues here while I was reading it. This doesn't necessarily mean that you two aren't meant for eachother, not at all. But the right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing. Let me go through some things that will save you loads of problems inside of...
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    Is it a good idea to move in with my future in-laws?

    I would highly advise against it. This is coming from someone who did it twice.
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    Let's Play Hardball----

    That's how every debate ends when one side has firm Scripture to back their beliefs and the other "heard it at church" and believes that the pastor is always right, therefore needs no Bible verse to back up what they say. It's also how every 'new slightly skewed religion' has begun.
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    Couple Devotionals

    I'm going to buy one of these. I have been thinking about it for a while.
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    Let's Play Hardball----

    It is not "sniffing out shortcomings" to disciple another believer when he is stating that his beliefs contradict the Bible. It is our responsibility as Christians to hold accountability and judgment to anyone claiming to follow Christ and correct them when they preach contradictions to the...
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    what if you feel..

    How do you know that? It would seem that you are limiting God's ability to use you as a vessel a bit here.
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    Let's Play Hardball----

    Who told you that it is encouraging believers to preach direct contradictions to Scripture? Can you twist another verse to explain that one away too? I'm torn apart at the way that you have molded independent verses to promote your personal religious acts to a higher deity than the Blood of Christ.
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    Let's Play Hardball----

    You're directly contradicting Scripture. Matthew 18:20 "For where two or three have gathered together in My name, I am there in their midst." This is an assembly where miracles and healings are not present, yet God says he is there. Because performing miracles and healing has no relation...
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    Free will = not free will?

    A person's view or interpretation of salvation doesn't change the truths of God's being.