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Recent content by toya30

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    Unempathetic

    Thanks for you honesty,too. May the love of God abound in your heart. We are really not all that different from each other.
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    Unempathetic

    I am sorry so many people have hurt you. I would rather be the person that kept getting hurt and feeling pain than the one who is doing the hurting. I hope you learn to feel empathy for people. You know what pain feels like why would you wish pain on someone else?
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    Driving and My Husband's Disbelief.

    Hey, I am 30 yrs old and due to anxiety have never even got my license. I got my permit when I was 27, tried to get my licesne at 28 but flipped out and almost got us killed. I had a tightening in my chest and I started to cry in the middle of my test. IT was very painful and embarrassing. I...
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    Suicide

    How come asking for help against suicidal thoughts is seeking attention? If you need help don't you need help? I am through asking people for help. The person I asked to disciple me didn't. The counselor that I called twice, emailed didn't respond, and my friend said all I wanted was attention...
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    Please do not judge...

    Yeah, it kinda hurt my feelings but I was suffering so much and in such confusion I really didn't think about it. I just never knew what it was. I was never told or taught about it being an inability to control my emotions or anything. I wish someone would have explained it to me. They didn't...
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    Please do not judge...

    I was in the mental health system since I was fourteen. I was diagnosed with everything. My last instituion I was in I was diagnosed with BPD. I didn't know what it was. The nurse kinda looked at me and said," BPD's are selfish and manipilitive, and blame everyone else for their mistakes. " The...
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    My mind cant make its mind up

    I can't believe you said that you wish you could fly to a different state each week!! I am like that too!! I can never make up my mind, ever!! I actually told my husband that too!! It is so neet to know people that are like you. God bless!!!