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Recent content by TonyLee

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    The Long-Time Single

    I am 51 and never married. My last date was 16 years ago, and last girlfriend 20 years ago. I would not mind being married (not just to anybody though), but I doubt that will happen at this point.
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    Why are you Single?

    I am single since I do not ask anyone on dates. My last date was in 2003. I am 48 and have never married.
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    Favorite cartoons?

    I used to love watching Star Blazers.
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    Would You Entertain An Arranged Marriage?

    I would not want one if it meant not meeting her until the day of the wedding.
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    Waiting until Marriage. Values

    There is not a single "pure" person on earth. Scripture describes the heart of man as extremely wicked. Every person born has that sinful nature and not one person can be good enough for the Lord to accept on his/her own merits. That is why the Lord gave his own self a sacrifice for the sin of...
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    long lost relatives?

    If someone won a large lottery, then I could imagine a "long lost" relative just appearing with no warning needing money for the kid's braces, surgery, or money to help with the house that just burned down, car engine that exploded, and on and on. I cannot see it as an excuse that someone MIGHT...
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    Birth order

    Only child here! Only grandchild also!
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    Anyone depressed about not meeting "The One" in 2015??

    I am not depressed about it. Marriage is not stressed in the church that I attend even though the pastor was married at 23. He rarely talks about marriage. The number of people there is small, and I am the only one there in the 40s age group. Even if I wanted to date someone at church, there is...
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    hello everyone, i'm new here.

    Welcome to the board!
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    Appearance of Sin

    I suppose that some non Christians must hold Christians to a higher standard than some fellow Christians. One does not have to be a legalist or think that he is better than someone else because he wants to guard his testimony around the unsaved. Only the power of the Lord can change someone, and...
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    Appearance of Sin

    If someone identifies as Christian, then non Christians will watch that person to see if there is any difference. I am not talking about someone who just uses that term to mean he/she is just not muslim or whatever else. If I worked in an office where everybody likes to curse and tell dirty...
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    Marriage in heaven

    I have noticed that in a face-to-face conversation or on any message board is that no matter the conversation whether it be predestination and election, eternal security, divorce and remarriage, or any number of topics, that those on either side give verses and go away still believing the same...
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    Marriage in heaven

    Matthew 22 28 Therefore in the resurrection whose wife shall she be of the seven? for they all had her. 29 Jesus answered and said unto them, Ye do err, not knowing the scriptures, nor the power of God. 30 For in the resurrection they neither marry, nor are given in marriage, but are as the...
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    Your last date

    My last date was 12 years and 5 months ago. We went to eat somewhere, but I do not remember which place.
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    Shot Down in Flames

    I would not say in flames, but the last time that I remember someone turning me down was in 1994. She already had a boyfriend though, so she was just being faithful to him which was good. The time before that was I believe in 1992. She just did not want to go out. The same thing happened around...