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Recent content by ToBeLoved

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    Limited Atonement: God's Power to Save

    It’s very hypocritical how Calvinists cry because their are people that don’t believe in Calvinism, but then post gifs mocking people who don’t believe in what they believe. Hence why they only carry a conversation w other Calvinists. They can pat each other on the back daily, hourly and by...
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    Why Did God Want Adam and Eve to Not Have Knowledge of Evil?

    This is not a Biblical account. No where in the Bible does it say or indicate that the Laws of God that were given by God to mankind has anything to do with what God indicated to angels or other principalities. This is not correct
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    Why Did God Want Adam and Eve to Not Have Knowledge of Evil?

    How would it not be considered evil when this is how sin and death, as well as separation from God occurred because of this. Adam and Eve walked with God before the fall.
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    I need some help understanding Reformed and non-Reformed Christianity

    BINGO ^^^ This is why I would avoid Calvinism. It's a slippery slope because it's hard to reconcile a lot of verses with it. Like "God so loved the world ...." John 3:16 Calvinism has to do acrobatics to say why the world is not everyone. Tons of bad theology and gymnastics. I would...
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    Jesus is God?

    How is Jesus being completely human and completely God not explain? there are many things God tells us and other things he doesn’t. you are a little backward in seeking everything you don’t understand. God did not tell us we would understand everything. as a matter of fact, He says all...
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    Jesus is God?

    So humbling yourself is about knowledge level? umm. No
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    Narrow is the gate and few who find it...Calvinistic?

    I’ve never struggled with the “few will find it” verse. Jesus said He wants ALL to come to him, so I start from that. if I had 5 children and say I only talked with one, that to me would be few, because in my heart I love and desire relationship with ALL of them. I find the verse sad. Like...
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    How did Jesus fulfil the law and the prophets?

    I’m sure you have the facts and figures that support that. I’d be interested in seeing that.
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    How did Jesus fulfil the law and the prophets?

    You really can’t pick out James and say they believed different things. You would really have to make the statement that all the apostles to the Jews were different than Paul. But then, that argument would fall flat with the words of Peter, who was the head of the Jewish church with James...
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    How did Jesus fulfil the law and the prophets?

    But wasn’t it your point that if we don’t agree with Yale that we are anti-intellectual?
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    How did Jesus fulfil the law and the prophets?

    James was an apostle to the Jews. Paul was the apostle to the Gentiles. Maybe take into account that the Jewish believers had the Old Covenant and were familiar with Yahweh. Gentiles lives in communities where lots of idols were worshipped and with little or no understanding of the Old...
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    How did Jesus fulfil the law and the prophets?

    I think it’s anti-intellectual to pick one video from Yale and insist that because it’s from Yale it’s the truth. What would Harvard, Columbia and MIT do if there was one source, Yale of all truth?
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    Whats the next best thing to be if you are not a christian?

    Why is that? And please show your points from this thread and my posts.
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    Whats the next best thing to be if you are not a christian?

    We are like two ships passing in the night. That’s ok. It was lovely talking with you. It is hard for people with no belief in God to understand the things of God or the worldview of anyone different than themselves. Hypotheticals are nice in theory and many people like discussing them...
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    Whats the next best thing to be if you are not a christian?

    It would be nice if I was accurately represented in what I did say. First, I did not say Christians are better. What I said is that we have a reason for doing positive or good things because those are the commands of our Lord and Savior. Second, I did not say that morality and good cannot...