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Recent content by ThomE

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    Youth Ministry as a College major?

    I attend a university for Youth Ministries and World Missions. The name is Redeemer University College. It is a great college. I highly recommend it!!!
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    Looking for strong Young Adult Christian friends...

    Perhaps this is not a answer to ur question, BUT let me propose something to you. Perhaps your friends disappoint you because you expect them to be more than they are. "Sinners only know how to sin", just because they call themselves Christian does not mean that they stop sinning. Now this means...
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    This question will blow your socks off.....

    Mostly be proud of yourself and who u r! IN the words of a very wise menor of mine... "Throw yourself out there!"
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    Dream mate

    LOL You know whats funny...Being a guy, when I read what Christian woman want I say to myself well I am most of those things, but then when I see the guys that these Christian girls are going out with it seems the really don't want any of those things they said they did...That or perhaps they...
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    Wild at Heart

    The book is by John Eldredge and IT IS ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS I HAVE EVER READ. And I don't mean to brag but I read alot!
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    Does God Speak to you?

    Hey. First let me encourage you...Many people believe God does not speak to anyone ANYMORE EXCEPT through the Bible. BUT I believe while he does speak through the Bible he uses hundreds of other ways to speak to us. These things COMBINED WITH THE WORK OF THE HOLY SPIRIT are what comfort me in...
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    Adults?

    The fact of the matter is we do not choose when we become adults. I think that by religous definition "becoming an adult" comes when we are gifted the ability to "create life". (This comes around the age of 13 for guys and 11 for girls) NOW...This definition deals with the physical, as it...
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    Who is registered/going to be for Fall 2004?

    I don't know about the other courses, but I did take the "Gospel in a pluralistic society and it was a great course!
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    I must be a fool...

    Katty I would love to hear more about you. You show wisdom beyound your years, as well as a mature understandinga and grace. If you want feel free to write me and tell me your story. My e-mail address is ThomEArch@yahoo.com God Bless...Thank You (I think I must just take some "me-time")
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    I must be a fool...

    Thank you everyone for all your advice on this one. I have been praying about it and after ALOT of thought I feel that God wants me to live with the love that I have for her yet he wants me to have the courage to know it's place in my life. I feel lead to "throw" myself in many new/different YET...
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    I must be a fool...

    Thank you Katty...Thank you.
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    I must be a fool...

    I am sorry BUT i have to say something! I appreciatte all your imputs BUT I don't think you guys understand what I am saying. Is there NO ONE in here that believes in love ( possibly working through problems not just abandoning them to "move on"). Personally I think most of these replies sound...
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    I must be a fool...

    Hey, everyone thanks for the responses. It is a funny feeling;..even with everything that I have been through I have a deep comfort in God's plan and look at this as a test of my love and who I am ( As well as what I am willing to fight for). All your responses were very encouraging except I...
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    I must be a fool...

    Let me first introduce myself. You may call me Thome. I am a college student. I need some advice and I will try to make it short. I am in love with "the girl next door". I met her in five grade and over the years we have become closer than I could have ever imagined. Growing up we were always...