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Recent content by Thom

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    My Husband wants a divorce

    I know you feel lost, I'm going through much the same right now. My thread is the one about my wife filing for divorce. My prayers go out for you right now. All I can tell you is dive into the Bible with a passion. Try to imagine crawling up into Christ's lap and let him hold you, he's there...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    I'm so touched and humbled by all of your words. I really feel your prayers, I feel so strong in the face of this nightmare. I don't have the words to describe how much your prayers mean to me. I wrote my wife a letter and gave it to her this weekend. It's easier for me because when I...
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    Married Christian men getting angry over wife's infidelity.

    To run to the bathroom to puke when you find out she cheated, to cry so hard that tears and snot soak your shirt, to look at the woman you love and not know her anymore, to imagine her doing the actual act. That is the pain I've gone through. It is crippling if you let it control you. Jesus...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    Last night was strange to say the least. My wife met me at the door when I came home from the gym and said she wanted to give me a hug. Then she took a break from doing her thing in her part of the house an hour later and came to give me another hug, she said "I love hugging you." I said...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    Wow!! I love you guys. I slept so well last night and I know it's from your prayers. She seems a bit taken back by my sudden confidence. I pray so hard that somehow she finds her way to Christ!!!! It's the only way. Desi - As far as Agape love read Hosea's story in the book of Hosea...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    Flesh99, Thanks man, harsh yes, but sobering and full of hope for the future. I keep telling myself that either way I'm better off. If she turns her life over to God, and she does admit that Jesus is Lord, then we have a chance. If not, then I will be free to pursue a God filled life...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    Last night was good. I talked to the wife about the decisions we have to make about debt, spousal support, etc. God gave me the strength to do this without getting emotional, I still can't believe it was me. My dad and I have grown so close over this whole thing, that alone has been a...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    I thank God for all of you. I'm so glad I stumbled onto this web site yesterday. I am a US Marine and am not used to feeling so vulnerable. I cried myself to sleep last night feeling so abandoned, angry, and cheated. You all make me feel like there are still great people out there who care...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    Thanks for all the replies and prayers. We have no children, so that's a hidden blessing. I'm working hard on letting her go, very tough. I have gotten legal advice and am starting to protect myself and property. I'd still trade it all for her to throw herself at God's mercy and work with me...
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    My wife just told me she's filing for divorce!!!

    Please pray for me and my wife. I feel so alone. I know God is with me, but I'm hurting so bad right now. My wife of six years told me she was leaving three months ago because she wasn't happy and was tired of working on our marriage. I have since found out that her high school sweetheart...