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Recent content by thmsred

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    Fear of Commitment

    Thanks for the suggestion, I'll check that book out.
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    Fear of Commitment

    Thank you for your prayers. I can understand what your going through. I'll be praying for you.
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    Fear of Commitment

    It sounds like you have a very good marriage. Supporting each other, building each other up I imagine would be helpful. I like how you talk about each others goals as being "our" goals rather than his and hers goals. That's good advice, thank you
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    Fear of Commitment

    Thanks for the advice. We are a bit different on a lot of issues. She doesn't like to travel that much. It does seem to me (partially) that you do lose some independence when you marry as you must give up some of your own dreams and goals to compromise with a person that doesn't share those...
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    Fear of Commitment

    It is difficult to say exactly wear my fear of commitment stems from. There's no single reason. To an extent loss of a potential experience seems to fit in. I would love to travel around living here and there for a while, work overseas, ect. Things that I can't see as being practical in a...
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    Fear of Commitment

    Does anyone here ever have problems with commitment? I definetly have a commitment problem and I'm unsure what to do about it. I've been dating my girlfriend for almost a year and a half. I love her but for some reason when I think about getting married I feel very anxious by the thought of...