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Recent content by Thithy

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    Single on Valentine's Day

    I'm single. I'm excited because my dorm is bringing in kittens and puppies for us to play with.
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    Met someone on the net AGAIN!

    I think that might be because we can be different people on IM. Also, it gives you a way to make good first impression. We aren't as nervous because we aren't actually seeing the person, so we can be more relaxed. I don't know why. I'd almost say don't do that sort of thing anymore if you...
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    Ever feel like...

    Well, when I'm at home I'm expected to mow the lawn, and I hate it. So, when I get married I plan on making my husband do that :D. Nah, I wouldn't make him, but it would be nice if I didn't have to.
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    Are you attractive?

    Kelco, I'm very sorry all those things have happened to you. There is no good reason to be mean to someone. And yes, I have gotten to know some "ugly" people that are the most beautiful people I know, along with the fact that I've gotten to know some "beautiful" people that are the ugliest...
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    Shallow is as shallow does?

    I don't think it's shallow. It's just shallow if that's the only thing you base the relationship on. And as I've said in many posts similar to this one, once you get to know a person, they can become attractive, even if you hadn't thought so previously.
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    Good Bye For A While

    I agree with Breetia and theman. Just say what you have to say and don't worry about offending other people. You can't please 'em all. But if you feel you need a break, do it.
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    Would you date an unbeliever?

    My thing is, I would probably say yes to someone before I really knew if they were a christian or not. Because if I don't know the person I can't say no, unless they are giving me weird vibes. I figure everyone deserves a chance. I may suggest a group date if I don't know them that well, just...
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    help, another sudo boyfriend!

    I kind of know what you mean. Most of my friends are guys. It's not that I don't like girls, it's just that the guys are more outgoing so I hang out with them. Really my only female friend here in college is my roommate. But anyway... It's hard for me because I'm always hanging out with...
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    Are you attractive?

    I think the answer to that one is yes and no. It's nice when a guy tells me that I look nice. As annoying as it is when guys whistle, it's a bit of a confidence booster. It means that all the effort I went into in the morning to look nice wasn't wasted. At least one other person thinks I...
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    i wish i was in a relationship...

    Amen to that. I swear it's the truth. Whenever I'm not looking I swear guys appear out of the woodwork. I guess there are times when I wish I was in a relationship, and other times when I'm so happy I'm not. I know I'm not anywhere near 30, but just because I'm not doesn't mean I'm not...
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    Are you attractive?

    I think how we were raised really makes a difference on whether or not we find ourselves attractive. I've always been told I was pretty. Even from being a little girl. All of my friends tell me I'm pretty, and I always get compliments at church. So I think this has something to do with why I...
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    Young People Should Look For The Beauty Within

    OK, I have to agree and disagree with this thread. :p No, physical appearence is not everything. It's not even the near most important thing. It's one of the lower points of importance, if not the lowest. In fact for now I'm gonna say the least becaue I can't think of anything less...
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    Are you attractive?

    I usually find myself to be attractive. However there are times I see myself in the mirror and go yuck! Look at those thighs, they're monsterous. As for having a s/o that says I'm beautiful, I would believe him. However, I would change myself if I wasn't healthy. Right now I work out to be...
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    Would you date an unbeliever?

    My whole thing with why I send depends is because I don't like turning down any guy when he asks me out. I figure everyone deserves a chance. However, it woudl be one date and that's it. I would make it clear that I am a believer and that that is very important to me. If they are an...
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    Question about approaching someone (ladies, your input would be greatly appreciated)

    Why wouldn't it work? In fact that could be a good conversation starter. "I'm kinda new here myself, the (insert what fits) brought me to this church, what brought you?"