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    Discussion of Matthew 5:28 But I say, anyone who even looks at a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

    Although, statically...not sure of the number. But men think of sex so many times in a day. For the single man, that's living a chaste life, it's not uncommon
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    Chastity in Dating: Not Just ‘No Sex’

    I think it was that old "Purity Culture" phase that influenced that with the protestants. Wonder if that carried over to some Catholics?
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    Chastity in Dating: Not Just ‘No Sex’

    Which is weird, because I never thought Catholics thought like this? I Thought it was the Evangelicals that didn't dot he "no kissing before marriage" thing.
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    Chastity in Dating: Not Just ‘No Sex’

    It's just an opinion article. One author, one opinion.
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    Though it's behind a paywall, the housing crisis is facing an issue where less men are buying homes, and still living with their parents https://fortune.com/2024/04/02/growing-crisis-male-invert-housing-oracle-says/ If you Google the topic, more women are becoming homeowners than are men...
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    Chastity in Dating: Not Just ‘No Sex’

    "Some" recommend not kissing before marriage? I wonder who are these "Some"? Awfully vague. I'm curious if people have actually done this successfully and never had a problem with it. I went on a date with a woman that thought like this, I was like "Good luck with that" and moved on. Just...
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    --Ordinary is no longer valued. You can't be a guy who goes to work and tries to live decently. That's not enough. You've got to make it splashier. So you hit the gym, go for a hike, have a weekend getaway, and hangout with friends at a bbq. You have to be a living highlight reel. That's the new...
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    Ver well put.....although, I know some people that have gotten together the old-fasihoned way...still, some are in their 20s. I know a co-worker that asked a co-worker out on a date...they became a couple, and are now engaged. here is me, playing it cautiously, even warning him, "Dude, don't...
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    You'd think this be the best way to find a lady, is via friends first...however, when I did this....I would get the "Sorry, I don't think of you in that way" or there simply wouldn't be any attraction. They just see you as a platonic buddy or pal. Sometimes they are caught off guard by you...
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    Boyfriend/girlfriend stage not legit?

    It was more of a cultural thing back then...what is stated in the quote. Shoot, women were treated almost like slaves in a sense as they were arranged marriages, they were used as a form of barter. Like if a man would trade his oxen or whatever and the father would hand over the daughter to him...
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    Want to date or be dateable, attractive to women... Therapy or dating coach?

    Yeah, I don't know why that one guy poo-poos therapists, my employer pays for mine 100% all the way, and she's been helpful as a work place therapist when certain traumatic events happen. Yeah, in agreement to the easy lays. I know men like this, though well intentioned, they use these women as...
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    Unequally yoked in Corinthian doesn't mean marriage

    Again...in the bolded...wrong! Wait....um, you just contradicted yourself.
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    Unequally yoked in Corinthian doesn't mean marriage

    What makes you think Catholic's don't know the Bible, excerpts from the Bible are read every Sunday at Mass, for instance, "A reading from Matthew"....and 14:13-21 would be recited in front of the Mass....heard this many times. So where did you get this idea that they don't know the Bible?
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    Unequally yoked in Corinthian doesn't mean marriage

    Why would a Catholic not have a relationship with the Lord, when in fact, that's all about what Catholics are? It's almost like a racial slur to say Catholic's are not Christian.