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Recent content by ThisIsMe123

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    I am curious why Republicans ignore Trump's wrong doing.

    == Well I am sad to say the Evangelical Christians remain a highly disproportionate and foundational share of his remaining base.== Right, even in Orlando, Southern Baptists are ostracizing women from becoming pastors. It's like we're still in the dark ages.
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    The world is watching America lose its moral compass and its global credibility

    Que the cringe-worthy image of Jesus over Trump's shoulder in the Oval office....via the typical trump loyalists
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    Would a Christian man be okay with this arrangement?

    --Do you remember what the weekend meant in the past? You don't hear that anymore from most. No one goes anywhere, does anything or spends time with anyone. The majority are home in front of a screen talking to strangers or living vicariously through their exploits. That's the new way to live.--...
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    Would a Christian man be okay with this arrangement?

    --This is what lies ahead for men and it won't be rectified through government subsidies (for marriage and children), public promotion or shaming campaigns, pleas from the pulpit or other incentives. There's too many examples showing otherwise and a picture is worth a thousand words. Every post...
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    Would a Christian man be okay with this arrangement?

    I appreciate your response...I just like to have a balanced response in message boards, as some tend to go off or get triggered. Thank you. I am reminded of an old friend's sister, who wound up being successful regardless of getting pregnant in high school. She got a job with VERY big name...
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    Would a Christian man be okay with this arrangement?

    A very odd situation here, but can in your right mind as a Christian man be okay with dating a Christian woman who dates with NO marriage in mind? @bèlla and others...Figured I'd bounce this off of you since the lady I've recently corresponded with kind of reminds me of you :) We actually had...
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    Men attend less singles events than women

    Yeah, when it comes to social settings, if the man goes out with a woman to a social gathering, he'll tend to sit on the sidelines, while she gabs with her lady friends. Sometimes, this is why you see women dancing with each other on the dance floors, dancing with each other, or with other...
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    Men attend less singles events than women

    Or women are too busy seeking validation via online means than in in-person meetings.
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    Are Some Prayers An Exercise In Futility?

    I'm more of a board gamer with friends. :)
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    Are Some Prayers An Exercise In Futility?

    Been a while since I"ve seen this post revived...quite the good timing as I've seen something online about how GREY divorces are on the rise. Like women over 50, that divorce 20 -something years into the marriage, esp. after the kids moved out...and she's simply burnt out. An influencer was...
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    Are Some Prayers An Exercise In Futility?

    Right, I'm constantly seeing in my Facebook feed, reels by women content creators and dating coaches about what's wrong with women. Saw this post very recently...
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    Are women more open to dating you than you think?

    Hm, my mom and dad were both Christians when he approached her on a public beach. They so happened to be parked next to each other, and he started a conversation with her. The fact that they were Christian had nothing to do with it, but more about how they just clicked with each other in...
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    Struggle with making friends

    So you don't even have friends through the church community you attend?
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    Struggle with making friends

    Do you honestly think that's healthy?