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  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Recent content by Think_About_It

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    What is virginity?

    Those who hold stigma's against non-virgins may want to think a little more. An over emphasis on virginity in Afganistan has led to women prostitutes choose sodomy over more natural intercourse. That she is not valuable as a person without her virginity. It leads to a sad state of affairs...
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    How do you feel about traditional roles in marriage?

    :D dishes as in "meals" Its too spicy...no its not spicey enough kind of complaints...ooh go on, do it yourself! Some husbands aren't Christian or just not very good men and not being a Christian isn't a good enough excuse, :D an in-law of mine has a fiance who won't work and bums off of his...
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    What is liberal [insert religion here]

    Those who say one must not move from the literal interpretations of the bible from cover to cover, do they also condone that a holy book preached the stoning of adulterous women? slave ownership? Incest with half-sisters?...........this type of rigidity is similar to that of the life style...
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    Raising Awareness?

    I used to find Dr. Phil mildly amusing until he went one step too far and I really didn't even care to be 'entertained.' after that. He offered his counceling skills to Britney Spears during her break down but then with-drew his offer when he realised she would only do so if her case wasn't used...
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    Never Had a B/F! Help!

    Do not worry, you are still very young. If you are afraid of premature sexual contact I'd advise to keep an eye out for a man with similar ideals, usually one that is active in their Christian community. But do not fret over not having a boyfriend, it is best to concern with building and...
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    Son asks dad, dad says no

    When a woman is of age (18), she is supposed to be free to choose who she marries with no legal reprecussions from parents. Although this is true, it is good to discuss the situation. A woman's parent's, if there is a close bond there, will often know their daughter best after many years of...
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    How do you feel about traditional roles in marriage?

    To rigidly adhere to traditional roles is to be in denial of one's own individuality, that we are mere products on a factory line churned out to this earth. We must fully realise our talents and apply them to a relationship. I am a wife, yet I cannot seem to get certain dishes right so my...