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Recent content by TheRisingSun

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    Is it unbliblical for a Christian man to be attracted to androgynous women?

    I know I'm responding a little late, but I'm surprised by that. A lot of dudes in the 80s were into Vasquez?
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    My recent struggle with gender

    Feeling left out.
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    My recent struggle with gender

    The reason I keep venting about this is because I feel like a total whacko compared to other Christian men. Gender roles are kind of a big deal in the church, and I'm nothing like all the Christian men and boys I see. So many of them have at least some masculine energy in them. They're normal...
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    My recent struggle with gender

    Hold up, you think I wouldn't do ANYTHING good in a relationship? You think my goal is just to slack off?
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    My recent struggle with gender

    I read your whole reply, and I understand what you're saying. Regarding dating and trying to find a partner at all, I'm guessing you recommend not doing that, while I'm lacking the Hero Instinct. And in my defense, most Christian men are not built like me.
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    My recent struggle with gender

    Wait--why medical?
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    My recent struggle with gender

    What do you mean by the "tough guy" aspects of masculinity? I was talking about traditional masculinity. Being a protector, being brave or courageous, (arguably) being taller/larger than the women in my life (in my case, my mother), being stronger. I'm just talking about being strong, brave...
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    My recent struggle with gender

    Well, I'm an American, in case that helps.
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    My recent struggle with gender

    I understand I'm male. The problem is, I'm not a normal male.
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    My recent struggle with gender

    Except I'm not trans. But the LGBT crowd might say I'm an "egg" (someone who is trans but doesn't realize it), going by my type and lack of masculine pride (no Hero Instinct).
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    My recent struggle with gender

    And I assume going for a spouse who's more physically capable than me and more of a hero isn't a good idea, either.
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    My recent struggle with gender

    And you believe that will cause me to develop the hero instinct? I'm egalitarian, by the way.
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    My recent struggle with gender

    Why authoritative?
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    My recent struggle with gender

    So, yes. Become more manly.
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    My recent struggle with gender

    I assume that apart from prayer, i should also make efforts to be more masculine.