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Recent content by thatdrummer

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    Need advice. do i treat him bad?

    if your friends arent born again christians dont take their advice people from the world always see things they way they shouldnt if it feels wrong thats because it is wrong listen to what you feel, and what God tells you.
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    Dumped for another girl (I think) and I can't deal...

    hes definitely using God to cover up for the fact he likes the girl and wants to talk to her and get to know her. atleast hes not trying to cheat on you. he hasnt said it directly but hes just trying it out. im 100% sure hes going to wake up one day, say what the heck am i doing and he'll...
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    Love Stinks? What Can You Tell Someone Who Thinks So?

    love does stink its true you get into fights, you argue about nothing sometimes you loose your patience you want to pull your hair out you tell the person you hate them that you cant stand them but at the end of the day love brings you back together and thats what its all about...
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    butterflies?

    youll get the butterflies. trust me. i dont know about girls, but as a guy, when i talked to a girl everything was ok, i liked her and that was fine, no nerves. but when it came to asking her out/first kiss/saying i loveyou for the first time lots and lots of butterflies when your...
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    sex before married =[

    yea i know what you mean. i feel good now like...nothing really happened. i guess the biggest part of this is learning from it and putting it behind you and never looking back. i guess i dont need to come back into this thread anymore. because itll just remind me of everything lol...
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    A question for the masters

    both. mix em together
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    Would you consider it cheating...

    definitely something happened before hand... so yea...
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    sex before married =[

    nah were young... were pentecostal christians. you know, after this whole thing happened, i finally understand that i have Gods forgiveness.. i would like to say how it happened but its kinda long and stuff. all i know is im glad i finally got it..im free :] there has been alot of...
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    For the Guys- How can we ladies tell if you are getting ready to propose soon?

    i would propse infront of my church. like during the service
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    where are the musicians at???

    hey how did you get all the reps?? lol i dont get it also drums>all ;]
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    sex before married =[

    thanks:] if you need anything that has to do with guy help, you can ask me ok, i appreciate the prayer you made alot of good points man, thanks. thanks guys i appreciate everything
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    Getting Hit On

    guys dont look at just any girl they look for curves and unfortunately she has alot of that and she likes to wear v necks which i cant understand why and it upsets me but i told her that she has to stop and she has so were good growing up and being a man about it? if you dont...
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    sex before married =[

    i dont think i can talk to my grandpa about this... this is something i would rather have no one know about you know? i mean i know i messed up...but ive asked God for forgivenesss so many times for this... i dont know... i really want to talk to her mom tho... we'll see im...
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    sex before married =[

    the pastor is my grand father... i definitely dont want to tell him anything about what happened... he would be so dissapointed, so would all of my family.. well about her mom...i feel like i have to confront her.. i dont want her to think that i was just after her daughter for that you...
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    struggling with lust

    well from my personal experience when ive said that i was feeling a little something, and she said she was too.. one of us said "do you want to _____?" and the other one said "obviously" and it happened wether it be me seeing her on msn going to pick her up at school where...