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Recent content by TDSTAATS

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    I have no idea, but this feels significant?!

    Humblewatchman, Thankyou, I will bring that up to my primary physician. Even if I sound 'strange'. I lost my father at age 51 from a brain tumor in Dec. 2007, but that stemmed from lung cancer, which was another reason for me to quit my bad habit as I didn't want to walk that same path and leave...
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    I have no idea, but this feels significant?!

    That's very inspiring, thankyou, I have recently made a life altering change almost a month ago by quitting a bad habit that I had felt weigh heavy on my heart for sometime, like a crutch that had been hindering me by one vice or another since early teen years, that I almost feel inclined to say...
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    I have no idea, but this feels significant?!

    Hello, I am a devoted christian (of the four square church family, Evergreen Christian Center) here in Portland OR, 32 y.o. husband and father to two boys 10 and 8y.o. I work for Intel and work along side many engineers with PHd's. I consider myself a person that takes the scientific approach to...
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    I'm getting in line for Prayer on this one too, advice anyone?

    (Stick with me here)-My wife and I have been married for 7 years, and were together for 4 years before that, 2 wonderful boys age 6 and 8, we're both 30 now. She cheated once and 2 other times she was having an "emotional affair". I was never able to totally forgive her, or I did and just didn't...