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Recent content by Tammy

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    Christians and intoxicating substances and what the Bible says about it.

    No, I don't think Jesus ever had a "bad day".... I believe he turned water in to grape juice, delicious grape juice...not alcoholic wine....that wedding went on for a week....can you imagine if people were drinking alcohol for a week straight! There would have been nothing HOLY about the...
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    thinking about devorce

    How do you know his first wife didn't commit adultery? If she did, he was free to remarry....
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    No Chick-fil-A on Campus, Say Johns Hopkins Students

    Give me an example of Christians persecuting in America.... I've not seen it....unless you think that not providing services for a homosexual wedding is "persecution". I call that ~ living out one's conscience...... which is something that homosexuals hate for Christians to be able to have the...
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    New poll shows 61% of Americans support same sex marriage

    I really appreciate your conviction, Riley...and I will be there standing with you! It amazes me, that on a Christian forum, that not EVERYONE is standing with you. God bless you!
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    New poll shows 61% of Americans support same sex marriage

    Divorce shouldn't be so prevalent amongst Christians...but it should be legal nonetheless as there are many men/women who don't keep their marriage vows and/or become abusive... No one should have to stay married under those circumstances...not even Christians.
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    April 28th....A Very Important Day....

    I wish I was as confident as you are, Fenny the Fox....I'm afraid the Constitution is going to get mowed down....
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    New poll shows 61% of Americans support same sex marriage

    Most of the people I know do not support it and never will support it. Sadly, it is becoming more accepted everyday.... Propaganda works.... It doesn't matter what TV program it is....they feature homosexuals on the program, trying to make them appear as if they are just normal couples with...
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    April 28th....A Very Important Day....

    The Supreme Court is going to begin hearing on same-sex marriage cases on April 28th. Depending on their ruling, it will either be a HUGE step in the RIGHT or a HUGE step in the WRONG direction. Here is a very good article about what is at stake: Dear Churches in America: Prepare to Be Treated...
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    No Chick-fil-A on Campus, Say Johns Hopkins Students

    If you want to find them, there are plenty of examples of Christians being persecuted in America....and it is becoming more common everyday....I realize that isn't something you want to see, so most likely, you won't see it. People tend to see what they want to see, rather than the facts.
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    I'm terrified of persecution

    I think a lot of it boils down to our perspective. This is just our TEMPORARY home...we are just PASSING THROUGH here.... If we have the mind set that, "If I live or die, it doesn't matter, as long as I am faithful to God," it will help us to not worry about persecution. I believe times are...
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    Attending gay family members wedding...help!

    Hello Leslie, I can very much relate to what you are going through. Our oldest daughter recently married a woman. She knows we love her very much, but she also knows how much this hurts us...she didn't have a wedding...they just went to a JP. I'm sure she knows we never would have attended if...
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    Is faithfulness in a Christian marriage possible?

    I understand you being nervous, W. If I were in your shoes, I'd be nervous, too. My husband and I are coming up on 35 years ~ and it's been a wonderful marriage... But we are very honest with each other.... I would not be comfortable in a relationship with someone who lies to me. You seem...
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    When Someone says God "spoke to them", do you believe them?

    My first reaction is to be very wary of people who claim to hear God speaking to them directly. I do believe that it happens, but I don't believe that most people who THINK they are hearing God, are NOT really hearing God.
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    Missing old lifestyle?

    Such a good question! I believe that God wants us to find happiness in serving Him. He doesn't want us to feel FORCED to serve Him....but to serve Him out of LOVE for Him. The more we love Him, the LESS we will love the things of this world and all the sin this world contains. Read the...
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    sex outside of marriage

    The Bible is never outdated...sex before marriage falls into two categories... Adultery or Fornication... The Bible says there will be no people who are living the adultery/fornication lifestyle in Heaven. That should be a really big incentive.