• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • CF has always been a site that welcomes people from different backgrounds and beliefs to participate in discussion and even debate. That is the nature of its ministry. In view of recent events emotions are running very high. We need to remind people of some basic principles in debating on this site. We need to be civil when we express differences in opinion. No personal attacks. Avoid you, your statements. Don't characterize an entire political party with comparisons to Fascism or Communism or other extreme movements that committed atrocities. CF is not the place for broad brush or blanket statements about groups and political parties. Put the broad brushes and blankets away when you come to CF, better yet, put them in the incinerator. Debate had no place for them. We need to remember that people that commit acts of violence represent themselves or a small extreme faction.

Recent content by tabithak

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    Prayer for OCD

    It's not OCD. It's actually CDO. Same thing expect the letters are in alphabetical order AS THEY SHOULD BE!!! ;) Hey! Yeah gotta laugh!! I will pray for you!
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    How do I not waste my days?

    I do the same thing. Colossal time waster! I am someone who thrives on having appointments and schedules in order to get anything done. I should also mention I have a.d.d. Anyway, keep the Netflix. We all have different ways of unwinding after a hard day at work and you seem to be using it for...
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    Pornography, lust, etc

    No pre-marital sex AND no masterbating!? If some people didn't have such a high sex drive, this isn't a problem but for those of us who do, this is a huge predicament we're in. At least give us ONE we can do! But no. I get it. God says no. So, I'm right here with you. Definitely struggle with...
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    Please pray for God to show me his will

    I already posted about this dilemma in another thread just awhile ago but could really use the prayer as this decision will affect my happiness and my future. I'm dating a non-christian man and have been struggling with this for several months. I've already broken it off with him early on...
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    Advice or input on this bitterness and desire to judge "Christians" ...

    I can relate to this. In fact, judgmental and hypocritical christians were the reason I left my old church. I eventually found a new one and guess what? Those same types of people are there too. However, a majority of the people are just laid back, non-judgmental, fun loving christians who are...
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    Dating a Non-Christian. Is this what God wants!?

    Yes, I know. Do not be unequally yoked together...yes, I've read everything there is on dating a non-christian. Still, I am completely torn on what to do with my particular situation. In a nutshell. Married a christian man at 19, divorced at 26. My ex says he really doesn't think there's a God...