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Recent content by Sweetgrass09

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    Dealing with cheating

    The bible unfortunately was not written by god, it was written by people, and men specifically. I don't want to turn this into a debate because that belongs on another thread but, the only reason why marriage and specifically womens virginity was so significant culturally wa s because it ensured...
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    My wife is pregnant with somebody else's child.

    Don't listen to the haters Ship, people can't get past their own judgement and what I think to be non Christinan behaviour to offer anything positive or constructive. Real christians here are the ones looking out for you :) stay positive!
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    What do you notice bout a pretty girl at first site?

    A "clean vessel"???? Holy sexism!
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    For Those Who Have Lost Their Virginity And Not Married

    I don't regret it at all. I was 15 (very young I know) and did it because I wanted to, and because I was ready. I did it with someone I trusted and who I am still with five years later. The most important thing is to be ready yourself, not let anyone pressure you into anything you are...
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    as a transsexual, what do you think of me?

    I love all people And i have a special place in my heart for transexuals! my father is a transvestite/cross dresser and i love him to death. i totally respect all gender-queer individuals. We are all gods children, we are all equal and we all deserve love, compassion and respect. Don't listen to...
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    Dealing with cheating

    Ya I think a large part of it is lust. My partner and I are not chaste and I personally believe that sex is a gift and the whole marital part of it is even more sacred but ultimately became part of the bible because of cultural norms that were around at the time of the bibles origin. I think...
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    Dealing with cheating

    I think that was always my doubt was that I needed to get out there and see more people before I settled down (he was always very serious about our relationship and wanted to marry since we were younger but I think that freaked me out a lot). We have talked about this and both think that this...
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    My wife is pregnant with somebody else's child.

    I am sorry I do not know about any organizations that can help you out (I am in Canada and we have more social programs to help those in need...come here!) but don't listen to every one telling you to divorse. I have dealt with infidelity and it can be hard but if you two truly love each other...
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    Dealing with cheating

    I am a new young(20yrs) Christian and have been with my boyfriend for five years. I moved away for a year when I was 16, and came back and things have been challenging ever since. We both saw other people in that time, I came back and we both have been unfaithful to one another in this time. I...