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Recent content by Sunshine158

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    I Attract Abusive Men

    I don't feel desperate. I feel lonely. I don't have children so when I am at home I really am alone. I go to restaurants alone, vacation alone, I do a lot by myself and have for over 2 1/2 years. I actually do not go out on dates a lot, at all. I just get hit on by abusive guys. It...
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    I Attract Abusive Men

    Meet up is a good idea! Thanks. rickster - I actually haven't met a nice guy in a long time. I am almost 40 so most of the nice guys are married or in a relationship.
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    I Attract Abusive Men

    JAM2b - you are so right! I actually just avoided an abusive relationship because he was moving so fast it made me uncomfortable. dayhiker - maybe I haven't healed enough yet. Maybe I'm not where God wants me to be yet. What you are saying makes sense. I have horrible boundaries in some...
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    I Attract Abusive Men

    I have. I feel like I'm making the right changes in my life but still only attract the wrong men
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    I Attract Abusive Men

    I hate it. I'm good at spotting it now but I attract abusive men. I'm tired of it. I never let it get too far but every man I meet that I might be interested in is abusive. Luckily I see the red flags and get out but why can't I meet a nice guy? Someone who wants to like me for me instead...
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    What scars do you still bear from your failed marriage?

    I pray for my ex-husband a lot. I miss him. There was a reason we got married:) He's Catholic and I'm non-denom. I think I'm really afraid to trust someone. I thought my ex was one person and he turned out to be another. There were red flags but I was too naive to see them. I also allowed...