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Recent content by sunset00

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    Most Embarrassing.........

    I thought it might be fun to see what type of embarrassing moments everyone has had or at least is willing to share. I don't know, I hope to laugh out loud at someone's story I suppose! Anywho, I guess since I brought up the subject I'll go first............... I don't know if this is the...
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    Am I crazy or is this normal?

    Am I crazy or do you struggle with this as well? I didn't always appreciate my christianity or take my faith and relationship with God seriously. I do now and my faith is the most important thing in my life but that's not my issue. Here's my dilly: I constantly try to improve my...
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    Marriage and failure

    Having a Godly marriage is definitely something that can be accomplished if both parties are willing. There is nothing new under the sun my friend. Married couples struggle just as much today as in the OT/NT. Though there may be different cultural nuances, the song remains the same so to...
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    What are you listening to right now?

    sigur ros: untitled #4
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    Do Men Like Facial Hair On Women?

    Hey, that was totally funny......................goonie goo goo!! I never dated a chick with a mustache or beard. However, in college I did date a girl for a while who was more of a free spirit. I think at one point in time she didn't shave her legs with for about 10 weeks or so during the...
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    Retirement Plans

    Echo the above. Your employer's HR would be the person to speak to concerning which type of retirement account you have. I would invest up to the company match because it's basically free money to invest. Investing anything above the match I would definitely put into a Roth IRA. I would...
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    How do you take your steak?

    medium-well, sometimes I'll get stupid crazy an order medium-rare!
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    Age Range

    I'm 31 and I really don't have a hard and fast rule on this issue. Not to sound cliche but it has more to do with stages of life than anything else. You can be the same age and going in completely different directions. That being said, I would go about 5 years in either direction give or a...
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    Ever found out...

    Yeah, it's happened a few times...............................................and I say, uh yeah, that information would have been useful for me at that time so I could have acted on it!!!!!
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    Tv

    The only tv I usually watch is Fox News..........................although I catch the following off the internet: Chuck The Office Burn Notice Radio dial is typically contemporary christian and talk show (i.e. Glenn Beck, Rush, Neal Boortz, Dave Ramsey)
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    height and weight?

    Their height doesn't really make a difference to me, short or tall. Although I do prefer women who do take care of themselves as far as the weight issue. Don't get me wrong, I definitely don't mind some meat on their bones as long as they try and stay healthy.
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    Spouse left me for non-adultery reasons

    When I talked to her at the divorce proceedings in '07' I asked if she had been dating and she said yes, although she didn't want to talk about it. I'm pretty sure she was dating her current husband during the time we were separated. In any event, she remarried within the year after our...
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    Choosing a Church

    I would definitely second what was said here. It may behoove you to get pre-marital counseling about such issues. Not saying this will happen in your case but there have been plenty of marriages ruined because of differences of faith. Pray, seek wise counsel, and discuss discuss discuss!!
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    Spouse left me for non-adultery reasons

    I've been mulling over whether or not I'm scripturally able to engage in relationships with a "clean conscience" biblically speaking. Now, let me just say that I am in no way perfect and had things to work on like in any relationship, but I truly was constantly trying to improve our...
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    These ?'s is for 25 and older singles only

    Yeah, there were things I wish I would have done differently but hindsight is 20/20. Personally, I think the pool of applicants dwindles year by year, although there or singles that still exist. If only I could find where they hang out!! No, it may have behooved me to be more picky. No way...