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Recent content by sunlit

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    Marriage breakdown

    thank you everyone. Things look very bleak but i continue to pray.
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    Marriage breakdown

    hi all, Please continue to pray for me. I am losing hope though i've been praying for the restoration of my marriage. My husband refuses to return home, isnt willing to try counselling. I pray that God leads me in His wisdom.
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    Marriage breakdown

    hi all, I request you to pray that my husband comes to Christ, his heart is turned towards our son and me, that he returns home a loving man having broken free of all the shackles and sins that cause him to keep away from us. Thank you.
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    Children who die

    Thank you everyone! I am a strong believer and its God who gives and God who takes. My faith has been put to test and i cant even imagine what she is going through. The end was sudden and they are a family of doctors. All she asked was why God made her outlive her child and then clamped up...
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    Children who die

    Hi all, One of my cousins was dealt with a devastating blow. She lost her 6 year old daughter. She was mostly told by people that the child is in a better place. I was at a loss of what to say. What do you say? While I was looking up some verses to comfort her a bit, a question came to my...
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    lost his arms

    Lord, have mercy. Praying for Daniel and the safety of the workers in the plant
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    Will you please pray for my dad?

    Praying for Norman to get a job he likes doing...
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    Please pray for my boss' newborn baby

    Praying for the newborn's healing...
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    How to?

    Thanks for your replies. Yes, i've read 'once an abuser always an abuser' or something to the effect that abuse doesnt really stop. Does that mean there are none who have restored marriages reeling from abuse for the better? Like a vice, I would think the abuse will not disappear overnight it...
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    In need of prayer

    Praying that the gøod Lord gives you strength and peace.
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    How to?

    Yes, its a vicious loop though i can say the abuse is definitely lessening (if such a thing can be considered.) So maybe given time, God may lead him back on the right path. Like i said, we are presently separated so nothing to fear by way of abuse. I have drawn a very firm line regards abuse...
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    How to?

    TW, i see where you are coming from but i made it clear way back to him about zero tolerance on abuse and either way since H&I are separated, i'm rid of that unhealthy environment. And this time around i too aint doing the talking bit. Maybe i'm procrastinating about taking the first legal...
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    How to?

    Well, it seems like i've almost reached the end of my rope and am ready to give up but just then i hear an inspirational story about a restored marriage. Moreover, at times i think whether if at all he may have genuine affinity towards the union which will come with time as he has returned...
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    How to?

    Hi, I think its prayer that gives me hope that my husband will mend his ways though prospects look very bleak. He is unwilling to accept his faults and though he promises to stop the abuse, he reverts to it. He shifts blame on me for everything that ails our marriage. For instance, when i see...
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    Marriage covenant

    Thanks a lot! Please continue praying with me.