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Recent content by StillLearning101

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    Just got a phone call need some advise

    Any more updates danny?
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    This Should Be A Safe Place For Us Remarried Christians!!!

    I thought it said in the bible not to judge people, so since we are "marginal Christians" wouldn't that make those people the same for judging us? Just curious.......
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    Just got a phone call need some advise

    Sounds to me like that, but the only actual way you know if proof. I am praying, but you have to find out for sure. Honestly, for the sake of your children, find out. Your children are suffering right now. I am praying for them also.
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    Have a parenting question.......

    In answer to someone's thoughts there-- I have Parental custody of my son. I am supposed to get 150.00 a month (which is my own fault) in child support plus 50% of all medical, dental, schooling, etc. bills. I have sometimes received the 150.00 a month--NEVER have I received any of the other...
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    Just got a phone call need some advise

    I'm glad you got to see your boys and will again. Keep praying..we all are. Just remember, if she doesn't want you back for some reason, you have to do what's best for your children and unfortunately it doesn't sound like they need to be with her. Do you think that she is possibly on drugs...
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    Have a parenting question.......

    Thank you so much. I have always been the overbearing mother..the one who went the extra mile..of course he is my first child also. My ex has never threatened me with trying to take my son or anything like that, but I think when he gets irrate, I get concerned. His mother is somewhat of a...
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    Just got a phone call need some advise

    Well definetely let us know after the hearing in the morning...we'll all be waiting.
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    This Should Be A Safe Place For Us Remarried Christians!!!

    FaithWalker...that is amazing. Thank you for being so sincere...it honestly made my day.
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    Have a parenting question.......

    I have a question. I am the mother of a 5 year old who is wonderful. His father and I got divorced when he was 1 and I just got remarried. My husband is wonderful...he helps with his bills like he was his own. We go to church together, etc. My son's father called today because there was a...
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    Just got a phone call need some advise

    Please let us know what happens...I am praying for you!
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    Any Adivise - Husband not "in love" yet won't leave

    Has nothing left to offer? Don't we all have something to offer at some point? I can't understand that this is depression. I would honestly think if it was depression, it would spill over into the children, etc. I think this has something just to do with the 2 of you...maybe an outside...
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    Supporting childrens' emotional needs through divorce and remarriage...

    That's a problem that I have--- I try my best to get my son to church and make him "abide by the rules"---his dad is totally opposite. Although he will discipline him, he drinks in front of him, doesn't give him rules to go by, etc. When it's time for church on Sundays, he just can't always get...
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    This Should Be A Safe Place For Us Remarried Christians!!!

    God loves the people that have killed and begged for forgiveness..what makes that any different? I am actually on my 3rd marriage--the first one I was beat and cheated on, the second one I was cheated on..and this one is fine. Does that mean that God hates me? Or I may not go to Heaven...
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    A Biblical Divorce

    Just remember this--- I looked for every reason to "justify" why I left a man that was mentally unfaithful, then physically. Then I looked for every reason to leave a boyfriend that hit me-- I have tortured myself over it for along time..until I remember this JESUS FORGIVES..that's why he...