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Recent content by StillLearning

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    Need guys' opinions and advice please! My mother contacted my crush!

    My mother and I were not on speaking terms for a couple of days after this, and she did apologize when we started talking again. I never saw it coming because it's completely out of character for her. But it looks like he's really happy about her contacting him. It has brought us closer. Even...
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    It looks like the misunderstanding is a thing of the past. He found out how I feel about him and it seems to have made all the difference... it looks like he now sees things the way I meant it, and not in a negative light the way he did before. Apparently he had absolutely no idea I felt...
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    Need guys' opinions and advice please! My mother contacted my crush!

    Update: He called me! He had to find out something from me, BUT he also made small talk, talked about something I gave him, asked how I was doing etc :) So... good sign? Am smiling from ear to ear after hearing his voice......... :)
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    I'm just worried he doesn't believe what I tell him, when I tell him how things really happened... Do you have any suggestions? No risk of that happening - I'm waiting for marriage, which is why it hurts so much that he would think otherwise of me..
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    It's funny you mention attraction... When he looked into my eyes, he had a look on his face I never saw before ("bedroom eyes"), so I think he felt a bit "too attracted" and being a Christian, it must have freaked him out.. Maybe he thinks being around me causes him to sin :( I think if I lived...
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    Wow the things you say are very accurate for my situation... It isn't something I mentioned, but I've been worried about the way those scriptures were sent to me.. It was as if he was saying that God told him that these verses apply to me. If this is really what he believes (not saying it is so...
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    Thank you... Yes I think he should have spoken to me first, but maybe he didn't know how to bring up such a sensitive topic.
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    A quick question... Could the fact that my kiss (just a peck) landed on his neck instead of on his cheek, have caused him to think that I was "experienced" or wanted to get "intimate" with him? I had an "uh-oh..." moment when it happened, but I didn't say anything to him about it because we...
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    I think you're right! It sounds like fear... It could have been triggered by something I did or said, because of something that happened in his past.
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    So true... that's what caused this whole misunderstanding. I've been praying about it a lot, asking God to please let me know what to say to him and how to say it, because I just didn't know how. I feel that my prayers have been answered because when I woke up today, I felt completely calm and...
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    Verses 7-10... That's exactly how I feel... I can't believe he'd be willing to throw away what we have without checking with me if what he "thinks" is actually true... without hearing what I have to say.
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    Thank you.. Please pray for my situation, I really do love the guy..
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    Nothing yet :) The thing he has to help me with isn't ready yet... it will take a few more days, then I can ask him when he can come over.
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    Please help! Huge misunderstanding! How do I talk to him about this?

    We've had some serious conversations before.. it's just this specific issue I'm nervous about. It's not a conversation I ever thought I'd be having with anyone..