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Recent content by Stephavery

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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    I appreciate everyone’s input. It is a mess I created. My choice was my own. Even if he hit me I should have just left. He has changed with his anger, I do know that. Is very gentle now, slow to anger. But he will never forgive me. I will stay married though. We started going back to church...
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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    the women were after we separated. I thought we were working it out but still legally separated. He didnt beat me in the sense he was controlling and beat me up. I was an instigator of fights, i push buttons, and he has hit me before. yes too much of a mess for the internet. I have dealt with...
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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    my point was that I think his dad would have a different opinion if he knew that my husband was at my house a few times per week saying he wanted to be with me, then going to another woman’s house an hour later. But it really doesn’t matter, like you said. He wants the relationship with his dad...
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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    This is what I keep being told. A man has too hard a time forgiving infidelity. It is hard to accept because I made excuses for the busted lips and trip to the hospital. I forgave. You are right though. He wants his Dad so I will be patient
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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    But he doesn’t forgive me...and keeps hurting me with his words. I feel like I am in a box. Judged and hated every single day.
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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    although he did admit he did not tell his dad he was sleeping with other women when I thought we were reconciling. He said it felt good to lie to me
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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    i did. He gets really emotional and says “well you caused this”. . He gets loud and I don’t want my kids to hear so I walk away
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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    we did get back together. He moved back in. I thought we were starting over. It just hurts...a lot...but I made my choices. I thought his forgiveness would be different ...
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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    You are both right. Such a long story for the internet. Like he said, my infidelity “trumps” everything else. I will carry my cross daily and live with the choices I made. Thanks for reading and responding. ❤️
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    My husband’s father, who was FWB preacher, will not forgive me

    Hi, I have been married 22 years. Three years ago I cheated. I didn’t tell my husband but I did leave him a year later. I left because he was abusive, not for another man. Mainly emotionally, sometimes physically, which led to my horrible and wrong decision to turn to another man. My husband...
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