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Recent content by steflou64

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    Sex drive: use it or lose it?

    I have not had sex and am a 52 year old virgin. I hope if/when I EVER get married I still have it! LOL!
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    Anyone depressed about not meeting "The One" in 2015??

    Well, another year gone. My finances improved in 2015 and I got a new car in July but STILL did not meet "Mr. Right". I am still palling around with a man I met in February 2015 and am going to talk to him next weekend about our relationship. If he has no romantic interest in me I am moving on...
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    Anyone depressed about not meeting "The One" in 2015??

    Well, another year gone. My finances improved in 2015 and I got a new car in July but STILL did not meet "Mr. Right". I am still palling around with a man I met in February 2015 and am going to talk to him next weekend about our relationship. If he has no romantic interest in me I am moving...
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    Where are all the good Godly men?

    I myself am not looking for a "sugar daddy"-I make about 53K yearly on a corp job with almost 32 year service-i am looking for a Godly man who makes close to what I make or better-someone who can pull their own weight and if we should marry that would be two incomes, not just one. In other...
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    Say it, Do it, Receive it, Tell it

    Hi all-I watch a preacher with a healing center in Augusta, Ga, Sandra Kennedy, and she has these monthly meetings called healing explosions. Anyway, she has them archived and I saw one with the above title where she heard the late Kenneth Hagin, Sr preach once saying Christ appeared to him and...
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    Who'd You Choose: Girl Who Messed Up Sexually but Repented..or the One ALWAYS Clean?

    Amen Seraphim! I am a 51 (52 in January) virgin! They are rare pearls but they are out there (even at my age!) LOL!
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    Is this sinful in your opinion??

    GOOD NEWS PEOPLE!! Gary and I quit doing the "hand jobs" about a month ago! He has not approached me to do one since then! Praise the Lord!!
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    If you eat bacon you won't live to see 86.

    I am getting ready to start that diet. Lots of people have lost tons of weight with it.
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    [MERGED]Oregon community college shooting: 10 dead, more than 20 injured, shooter in custody

    Back in the old days I'm pretty sure it would'nt b ruled out!!! We've come a long way baby![/QUO The shooter asked people if they were christians before shooting and if they said yes he said "good, because you are about to meet God in one second" before killing them! The devil is running wide...
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    Georgia executes first woman in 70 years

    The good news I believe is Ms. Gissander came to know the Lord before her death. I heard she studied theology in prison. I personally don't think it is right that she should die and the guy who DID the actual murder is still alive! Also, what about Tex Watson (of the Charles Manson murders)...
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    One of the hardest things about being single....

    I have a supervisor who is leaving my job that I want to stay in touch with. She drives a nice Cadillac, rents out duplexes, goes horseback riding every weekend. I am hoping she can help me get into real estate investing.
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    One of the hardest things about being single....

    Another hard thing about being single even though you don't marry for money is you have to pay everything yourself!!
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    How far would you travel to date someone?

    I have been dating a guy around 35-40 miles each way for 6 months-takes a little over an hour to drive to and from. If you click and have the right chemistry I would make the sacrifice.
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    Losing hope.

    I know, sweetie-I am 51 (will be 52 in January) and never married. I have also done the "right things" including saving myself for marriage, etc. I have been "palling around" with a guy for about 6 months but think it is more of a friend zone situation. I don't want kids thank goodness but...