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Recent content by SquirtleMcgee

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    Still a virgin?

    In my opinion, I don't think a rape victim is still a virgin. A virgin is someone who hasn't experienced sexual intercourse. Whether consensual or no, it's still sex. Therefore, they're not. But does it really matter? God loves you no matter what. That is what's important.
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    wrong

    Certainly an interesting way at looking at things. A little morbid, but still interesting.
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    Things not to say to a survivor

    Why shouldn't we say these things? Exactly what does it mean to be a survivor? To me a survivor is someone who doesn't let what happened to them rule their lives. They live life to the fullest and isn't scare what ppl say. There is nothing wrong with being a victim. I know ppl react differently...
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    Does God really want me to get something out of this? Please read...God bless

    Why is wanting justice wrong? Why would you think that God intended this for you? I don't think He intended this for any of us. You need to tell someone, Go to your parents, an aunt, uncle, cousin, friend, teacher, pastor, the police even, and you need to keep telling till something is done. If...
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    Still Feel it's Your Fault?

    I still think it's my fault sometimes. And when I think like that I go into denial. I tell myself, it never happened. I'm learning to get over that. Hitting someone is never justified, no matter who does it. From what you've said, they're just excuses for him to hit you and because you...
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    my wife was abused

    I used to do that. But I learnt to recognize the signs on when it was about to happen. If I was at home, I would lock myself in the garage. I have a punching bag in there, with my baseball bat. I turn the radio up really loud, and just start hitting the bag with the bat. It's very theraputic...
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    Do you ever wonder what the REAL love is like?

    I've experienced real love. It first happened when I was 18 yrs. He had the most amazing blue eyes. And 11 yrs later, he still one of the love's of my life. Yes I have more than one. I have 5 infact. And I know there will be more. Infact another one will come into my life in march. They're my...
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    Feeling bad

    Does it help writing it down?
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    Pokemon is of Satan - rant of the month

    I LOVE pokemon. Hence my name. :thumbsup:
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    My previous thread about jealousy of another woman

    I tend to think you are born gay. We are all born with weaknesses to overcome are we not? But there is also an element of choice. You choose to embrace that lifestyle or you choose to supress it.
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    A question/confession for everyone

    Hey guys, I'm not that much older. Ok maybe I am, I just don't act it sometimes. :D Sorry Dave, couldn't help myself. It's just slipped out. :blush: But seriously, I think it's a good idea that you want to start a support group. You have my support too. And I promise not to flirt with you ;) much.
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    A question/confession for everyone

    I'll keep ya company Dave. With me around you won't need anyone else. ;)
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    Dear Mr Jesus song remember?

    I hope he can find peace within himself.
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    Forgivness for abuse is SO HARD!!

    I think the reason I forgave one of my abuser is because he's dead and the other, I don't live in the same country as him anymore. So I think it makes it a little easier for me. It takes time. There is no time limit on it.
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    A question/confession for everyone

    I was abused by my brother. But for the longest time, I was in denial. I never said anything, I knew he was doing it to my other sisters and a friend. I remember one night, my parents were out, and a friend of my sister, was staying the night. They were in the room together. I knew what was...