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Recent content by SPLogan

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    Age, Height, Income difference

    Yes, I think that few "secure" men are looking or women. I think we have a built-in insecurity that draws us toward a female partner. Men need someone to provide for, to love, and to defend. I think most of us feel incomplete without that. If I wait to get myself in order, I'll never get a...
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    Age, Height, Income difference

    Before I retract my statement, I was responding to... In that statement, "Insecure men" must mean men who are struggling with self identity. So... My response to that is: Inherently, the desire to seek a spouse in the first place is a sign of insecurity- it is a good, God-given insecurity...
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    Age, Height, Income difference

    If I wern't insecure, I probabily wouldn't be looking for a woman in the first place. I do hope to be the masculine figure in my marriage. (if I am blessed to have one)
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    Age, Height, Income difference

    I have a question... Does age, height, and income difference matter in relationships? If so, how? It seems normal for the man to be older, taller, and to make more money. Is that important in courting/marriage? What if I date women who are older, taller, and/or make more money?
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    Is it natural for a 21 year old to find sex disgusting?

    If you're a Christian and getting weird looks by non-Christians because of your piety- that's ok. We are the counter-culture. I really do envy your situation. I want to love my future wife for who she is inside; not for her external sexiness. (however, external sexiness is wonderful iceing on...
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    Is it natural for a 21 year old to find sex disgusting?

    ahmunmun, as someone who struggles with lust in his own life, I actually envy your situation. Lusting, imagining sex with people you're not married to is a sin. It's a BLESSING if you don't struggle with that. As bliz discussed, you should consider the beauty of how your desires can grow...