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Recent content by Speedlad

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    Cheating

    Im pretty sure of it, yeah. The answer became very clear to me when i started looking a bit deeper into myself. I had been having these thoughts for a long time, but I managed to just oppress them when they came up... I discussed it with my fiancee and she said that she had been having hunches...
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    Cheating

    Thank you for the replies everyone... Maybe your right, nihilist, but i still feel that if you feel a "need" or urge to cheat than you might aswell have done it... Also i didn't give to much detail regarding what happened but, like i said, it was well out of bounds... As for the rest of the...
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    Cheating

    I have never posted in these forums before, but i hope you can spare some time and read my post... I am a christian man in my mid-twenties and I, 4-5 months ago, cheated on my fiancee, who is also christian and I love dearly. Many people wouldn't call it outright "cheating", but to me hoping...