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Recent content by sonyeth

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    I really, really, miss my wife

    It's really hard time when the usual things she do to you will stop out of a sudden, the reality that it will never happen again. if you feel like crying then do, that will help, you talk to her tell her you miss it , and talk to God to heal the pain that is running out of you,to wipe your tears...
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    I'd like to share my love story

    Jeldist sorry for your loss! Yes its really, really hard time when we lost someone we loved. Its been a year when I lost my husband and yes I don't like no other, just him. That is the feeling till now, and the grieving process cant be measure when to stop. Many times I told the circumstances to...
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    A Struggle

    Its been eight months since my husband died, and the Christmas season really makes me feel sad, its the first Christmas year without him. I'm trying to make my self busy, its also the first time to wrap gifts to all the kids, his nephews & niece whom he gave attention when he is still alive. In...
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    Nothing helps with the loss of my husband

    Michelle....many times i just want to hide my tears....cause it really really hurts. And I just don't know where those tears will bring me. Or maybe because I just want to be strong for all of this...And the only one that I know will listen and understand me well is God. My friends were far...
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    Nothing helps with the loss of my husband

    Hello Trdrp....I'm sharing your pains and loneliness. I knew those feelings because everyday those are my companions. When somebody ask me " Are you ok now?", my answer is I'm not and it will takes sometimes, more months or years. And I told my self this people had not yet experience the same...
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    Nothing helps with the loss of my husband

    Just a thought about what RogerVW said, Yes the Lord saw the need of Adam for a companion, and so He gave Eve, I know that God knows the joy of Adam for having Eve, and I think God knows also the feeling of separation that occur between them. From the very start the Devil had its way..to destroy...
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    Nothing helps with the loss of my husband

    Michelle, Yes they really wants to comfort by saying those words...unnoticed those words are presently hard for me to accept. Maybe sometime...months or years until I'm ready to reply with a smile. You are right & I will quote your word to Trdrp..He wants to be the most important person in our...
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    Nothing helps with the loss of my husband

    Hi Michelle,....Some is telling me that I can still find other guy. Everytime I hear those words...it really really breaks my heart...because they just adding the pain that I can no longer have him...To think that I will hug other than my Darling it really makes me cry....Yes the pain is still...
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    Nothing helps with the loss of my husband

    Hello Michelle,...the pain is still here, I'm crying everynight...maybe that's help me..I know all this things will pass, I just dont know when. GOD BE MERCIFUL TO US..
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    Nothing helps with the loss of my husband

    hi pnktulip, Your still bless by God because you even had granchildren, I lost my spouse last April 2012, and we had only 4 yrs old son...I ask God why He took my Darling so early for us to enjoy and share life with, We've been married for seven years but we shared only about 3 years in total...