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Recent content by Solanus

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    Am I a Sinner For Wanting to Divorce for This?

    Thanks for replying and yeah.......I just hope God gives me some clarity. I realize that what Jesus did for us makes this look absolutely petty. If we never spoke again our whole lives but remained committed to God I think we would still be okay because what's in the world does not matter. But...
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    Am I a Sinner For Wanting to Divorce for This?

    Thank you I really appreciate this, because I literally have not been able to talk to anyone about this much. And I want you all to know I love my wife and will fight for until the very last minute. I just honestly don't know what to do....I'm on a message board getting great advice from people...
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    Am I a Sinner For Wanting to Divorce for This?

    Yes, we went through your typically church Christian counseling. Scriptures, lessons on handling issues, going to elder couples for council, the man's role, the woman's role, etc. However, after marriage happened she decided that was too much to handle and she would not be being herself if she...
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    Am I a Sinner For Wanting to Divorce for This?

    And thank you everyone I will reply reading through all the responses.
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    Am I a Sinner For Wanting to Divorce for This?

    And second question, would be separating and not divorcing me the same thing? I'm honestly over marriage, I'm not sure I would ever do it again given the chance. I would be just as happy focusing my life on God and being his tool in the community. If I stay in this situation I pretty much have...
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    Am I a Sinner For Wanting to Divorce for This?

    Let me start off my saying thank you for any input and feel free to tell me as it is I'm not one to shy away from the truth. Here is my situation: I'm a young male and I thought I was marrying for the right reasons. She was a strong Christian, smart, liked to do the things I do, and a good...