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Recent content by Sobe

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    Marriage problem w/nowhere to turn

    Bluntly, I don't have the energy to fight this thing right now. I am using all my energy to just keep afloat, to put on the pretense. When I have brought up the healing process he needs to go through in the past, he just gets upset. While he does not usually use words, he blames me, and I...
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    Marriage problem w/nowhere to turn

    I really appreciate all your replies, and please understand that I can take criticism. No, I have not sought counselling, because I was told, when I tried to take this to a professional, that if I did, he would be automatically registered as an offender. I did not want that. Why? Because...
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    Marriage problem w/nowhere to turn

    He is a religious man, attending church and completely involved in it, but he refuses to have anything to do with childrens' ministries. I already told him I would not allow him to do any ministry with children or young people. (I do not attend his church, having already had my own worship.)...
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    Marriage problem w/nowhere to turn

    Thank you for all your answers. I am sorry I placed this in the wrong area. Please let me know where this is moved.
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    Marriage problem w/nowhere to turn

    Please pardon my coming here and just jumping right in with a major issue, but I come in frustration. Perhaps it will help to just finally just write what I have feared even thinking, but I need some input from believers, and I am not yet ready to ask for help from those I know. I am a...