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Recent content by snbcamp

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    OCD and relationships-help!

    This OCD stuff is really tough. I find that I can't trust my feelings. I go from being okay with things like I think I've finally got a grip on it, to feeling despair and anger at my wife like it's somehow her fault. This couldn't be farther from the truth. She's been a solid supporter through...
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    OCD and relationships-help!

    Thanks SAD for the great encouragement. I could totally identify with what you said in your reply, especially how you doubt your feelings for your hubby when you are OCDing and not thinking about it otherwise. I am that way too. For the longest time I thought that I was the only one, so it's...
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    OCD and relationships-help!

    Hi Post-It! It was nice to see you here too! I have enjoyed your posts from Healthboards. I thought that I'd try to post my story here and get some good support from some Christian brothers and sisters. This OCD is really knocking me for a loop, today especially. I am seeing a very good...
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    OCD and relationships-help!

    I am new here. I have been married (happily) for 13 years now to a wonderful woman who loves me even though she knows that she is the object of my negative obsessions. We have four kids, two of them adopted which have brought about their own challenges. The other two are aged 3 and 7, so our...