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Recent content by Smirky

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    MUCH needed relationship advice from other Christians...

    Thanks, that was very helpful. I like coming onto these sites for advice because God speaks through other people which can help the situation. Yeah, we both definitely messed up and put ourselves in a vulnerable situation. But it was the first opportunity of spending quality alone time with him...
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    MUCH needed relationship advice from other Christians...

    I am always focused on him, and did later make up for what i did without even realizing it by saying: i'm not going anywhere with them. i came here with you and i wouldn't desert you. and even if i wouldn't have came with you i STILL wouldn't go anywhere with them. so i would think that makes up...
  3. Smirky

    MUCH needed relationship advice from other Christians...

    Wow. THANK YOU for the very helpful advice I needed. I feel bad about going over to the pool the give them the ball, but they wouldn't have it any other way. I think they were aiming to throw the ball right where i was sitting purposely. I feel like crap about that now, but 'hindsight is always...
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    MUCH needed relationship advice from other Christians...

    Ok, this is VERY long and detailed, but I am desperately seeking advice from other Christians about my situation. so here it is... I have known this guy for 7 years now. He is still in the ARMY stationed in NC but he's almost done. He has about a month left. A few weeks ago, he asked me if I...
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    Case Of The Ex - much needed advice!

    Ok, so this is a rather complicated situation, and it's pretty long so i may not get any feedback, but i guess it's worth a shot. basically, i dated this guy when we were very young (13), broke up but became much better friends afterwards and as time went on and we got a little older he wanted a...