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Recent content by smb12

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    Questions for someone with BPD

    Well thank you again for responding. You're absolutely right! I need to seek some good counsel and find out what about me is saying, things are "ok, or rather have been "ok enough" to continue in the manner in which they have. I read a book by John Townsend "Who's Pushing Your Buttons" Oh my...
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    Questions for someone with BPD

    Thank you so much for posting! I will go get "Stop Walking on Eggshells" today! Anything to help. . .I noticed, Madison1101, that you post on nearly every Borderline thread--that's a tremendous help and a great blessing!! I hope you know that what you've been through, God has used to help and...
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    Questions for someone with BPD

    Hello, I am sorry that I may seem a little new and inexperienced with BPD---it's because I've only heard about the disorder this week. From the 9 areas of criteria that I have seen in the DSM IV (Diagnostics), I am no dr/therapist and I don't claim to be, but it's just that my on again/off again...