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Recent content by slmill1987

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    Communication: Love and Respect Issues

    My marriage has been far from easy, with lots of trust issues related to both of us lying about things. Even though I feel like I have repented, and I believe he has to an extent, there are things that aren't getting handled correctly. I keep seeing "love and respect". Every day of my marriage...
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    Should you be an open book?

    I saw a post from another website earlier that a husband posted that he does not give his Facebook or email passwords to his wife and he locks his phone because he "can do what he wants to do and it is none of her business." I felt I relate to it, but maybe my husband wouldn't use those words...
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    How do I handle the hurt from a lie?

    I appreciate your fast response, and to be clear from what I feel and know, is that since the incident almost two months ago, my husband has proved to me that he does want this marriage to work, as do I. I really read your first sentence about being right, and once I did, I had a much more...
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    How do I handle the hurt from a lie?

    My 3 year anniversary was May 12th of this year, and it was one of the hardest days as my husband said he wanted a divorce because he felt like I was not trusting him or forgiving him of the rocky past in the beginning of our marriage. Two months after I married him, I found messages between him...