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Recent content by slimshaky

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    How to love my spouse

    Thanks for the insight. I do in some ways feel like we are stuck in a cycle of causing each other to make the situation worse. I don't think that my sometimes visible resentment makes her any more willing to change.
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    How to love my spouse

    I have proposed that but she is opposed to there being any limit on that amount that she can spend. I have stopped trying to budget at this point because the spending is far outpacing our earning.
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    How to love my spouse

    I forgot speak to financial goals idea. We have talked on that topic. We have seemingly little in the way of shared goals. Also the ability to randomly spend what she wants on any given item more important her than trying address any other kind financial goal.
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    How to love my spouse

    Ugh. Auto complete butchered my response. I tried to say her mom often bails us out on house work.
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    How to love my spouse

    Thanks for the time to respond. We have two kids ages 5 and 7. I contribute the house work and to model the behavior desire giving priority my wife's requests. With that said am by means perfect husband and have lot of flaws. Her often bails out on a lot of house but don't think she should...
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    How to love my spouse

    I have been struggling with bitterness toward my wife for some time, and i think it has only gotten worse lately. We've been married just over 10 years and have had a strained relationship for some time. The main source of the bitterness for me has been in regards to money. I likely went...