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Recent content by simonar

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    Just diagnosed as BPD and scared

    Hi my dear friend, Don`t worry .Don`t despair.Consider it just a disease,like diabetes.It all depends on you and how you can control your mind,your moods and depression.Trust me.I have BPD,I was worse,but I have read alot ,took some psychology classes and I have learnes to fight with the bad...
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    relating to relative with BPD

    Hi there You can give your friend this adress,maybe she will feel better talking with somebody.I have BPD and feeling a lot better ,I can control my moods and depression livewithborderline.com (just put www in front,) a beautiful day!
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    I have been getting depressed at night lately

    My dear friend , I have BPD,and depression but I control both of them .Evereything depends on you.You have the power ,just need some will ! Enjoy life as it is,it might not be spectacular ,but look at the buddhists,they live everyday like their last one!And they enjoy even not doing...
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    frustrated and scared.

    Hi my dear friend ,I have BPD ,too,but I control myself Don`t despair,you just have to have more strenght,the power it`s in you.you can change everything.everything is in your mind and you can deal with that.Why to be upset?And depressed?You have children ,that is a gift .That`s why we call it...
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    I so much need urgent help

    Hi my dear friend, I have BPD,and I am doing well ,you just have to trust in yourself .You will get better!I am doing better and better because I pray every day to God to give me strenght and I also read alot about how can I fight and act normal.You just have to work to improve your...