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Recent content by silent_scars

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    How Long Have You Been A Cutter/ SI'er

    for me its 3 years this month .. i'm trying to quit though ...
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    Brand New

    welcome and nice to meet you
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    I feel horrible

    i dont always want to get better either i'm scared sometime if i let go of it i'm going to be loosing part of who i am ....
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    is there ever a time

    thanks so much for sharing that !! it helps to know that it is possible that one day that i wont think about it all the time .... i think its more of a bad habit now thats hard to break than anything else ... a way of life ... that i'm not sure i need but at the same time i'm not sure i 'm...
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    If you are a Youth minister/pastor/leader post here!

    i work with the youth group at my church ... my sister and i used to do it by ourselves while we were between youth leaders but then we got a guy and he ended up being a lot of dram (long story) and now another lady leads it and i help ... its boys and girls 7th-12th graders .... i also teach...
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    is there ever a time

    when you can say i no longer cut? three weeks three months three years? how do you know when you wont do it again??? does the urges ever go away ? does it ever stop filling what seems like your every waking moment ... even when you dont feel like you need to cut .. you think about it ...
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    How long since you last self injured?

    its odd... i dont actually keep up with it ... i know its been within the last few weeks but it could have been a week ago it could have been 3 sometimes i could have done it yesterday and i cant remember how long is been .... 1 day feels like forever and 3 weeks feels like yesterday ... is...
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    *smiles really big*

    that is awsome!!!! i cant seem to make it a month .. its weird though i cant keep up with the days that pass between cutting ... i just know if i did in any particular month ... but i donno how many days in a row i do or dont ... i just cant seem to keep up ... congradulations!!
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    South Carolina

    hi justin :)
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    Jars of Clay Redemption Songs

    i did the preorder too!! Jars is like my fave band ever .... this is prob my least fave cd ... not saying it isnt good because it is .... but i really like cds that i havent heard the songs before i guess .. i like it but its one i have to be in the mood for :)
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    South Carolina

    Sumter here