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Recent content by Shrinking Violet

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    Is feminism compatible with Christianity?

    I agree that education is not wasted, but I feel you can waste your time on a path that doesn't suit motherhood. I have a degree in engineering, but there is no such thing as a part-time engineering career. The idea is that if a man can be an engineer and have a family, a woman should be able to...
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    Is feminism compatible with Christianity?

    It's mainly my family, and I'm just conflicted. Being raised in that environment makes me think a similar way, but I'm afraid of hurting my chances of having a healthy family. That's far more important to me than any career.
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    Is feminism compatible with Christianity?

    The push, in my case, is to make me independent, self-sufficient, and financially successful. I think the idea is that if women do not pursue a career, they cannot live well (free of financial worries) unless they marry a successful man. This places them in a vulnerable position, making them...
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    Is feminism compatible with Christianity?

    So how do Christians characterize the difference between men and women? For instance, is it wrong for a woman to maintain a full-time career if she has young children? A feminist would say that there is nothing wrong with such a choice. If that's what the woman wants, that's what she should...
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    Is feminism compatible with Christianity?

    Some people say that feminist values are not compatible with Christianity, but I have also heard of Christian feminists. As I understand it, the bible calls women to submit to men in marriage. Feminists say that men and women are equal in all ways. Christianity seems to say that men and women...
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    Social Anxiety and dealing with it

    I have had quite severe social anxiety for as long as I can remember. It makes it very difficult for me to develop relationships with people. I have also had a hard time with employment. I can appear normal at times, although people always call me quiet, but it really is a very painful...
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    Searching for answers

    I feel somewhat lost in my life at the moment, and I'm looking for a greater sense of direction. I agree with most (if not all) of what Christianity stands for, and the more I learn, the more I agree. I've considered myself agnostic for years, but this was mostly because I didn't feel I had...