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Recent content by Shane McKenzie

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    Coping with lockdown

    Anyone else live alone and struggling with the isolation from lockdown? Doing my head in.
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    Need help interpreting "guyspeak"

    It means he's either got love goggles on and perceives you as more interesting than you really are (no offense), or else he's saying words to try and get somewhere down the road of getting freaky wit u. Smooth talking. Either way, he probably isn't honestly that fascinated about the thing he...
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    What are you listening to right now?

    Cars driving by the window. Not sure why there's traffic when you can't even go anywhere anyway due to quarantine.
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    Good forms of contraceptives? (Christians only)

    Get on the pill, just be aware that some pills don't actually prevent conception but rather embryonic implantation. More details: The Pill: Contraceptive or Abortifacient?
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    I revealed my past to my husband

    Your husband just wants to fully know you, warts and all; even if knowing those warts in detail will cause him some grief in the short term, increased knowledge of you still ultimately gets him closer to you. (Alternatively, I could be speaking out my bum and your husband is just asking out of...
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    condition for people to be saved in their last moments

    Your question assumes we have control over our own destiny. Suppose we don't? Suppose it's God who chooses when a person will be saved?
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    Why are you single?

    Not horny enough to make the effort.
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    My Christian friend won’t read The Bible!

    Tell her what you want, accept her rejection and then decide for yourself whether you want to be her friend or not instead of trying to change her.
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    Theology of Plague

    Not a random feature, but not a special judgment either. The Bible says God creates disaster (Isaiah 45:7), but Jesus brought up one particular disaster regarding the tower of Siloam in the New Testament and said that this didn't happen because the people caught up were any more or less sinful...